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7/6/2016 9:48:50 PM
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Son kicked for being a kid
Let me start by saying this is not a rant or a crying session. I get off work today, ask my 3 boys how their day was. My 13 yr old tells me he put a group together and flew a fire team into his oryx checkpoint. One of the "mature"adults tells my son to hand over fire team lead, so my son being a gullible pre teen he happily surrenders the lead. He then gets kicked from the group for being a kid. I understand a lot of people prefer not to play with children ( myself included ,except of course my children). I get it. This person knew my son was a kid when he joined the party. To me, this is a bit below the belt. He's not upset, neither am I, we both just kinda laughed and shrugged it off.
Let me say my son has many oryx clears, he's better at the raid than many of the people I've played with (reaction time of a 13 yr old is crazy, makes me feel old watching him lol). I guess my point is, you don't want to play with kids, cool nothing wrong with that. Just don't be a prick and cheat your way to a checkpoint by stealing it from a kid, then kicking the kid. Thanks for reading.
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Ok first the guy was a dick to your son. Secondly tell your son the next time someone ask to take the lead say no if they bitch remove them from the team. Thirdly the loser didn't have to kick your son he was just being a dick they knew they were going to either kick him or bail if he didn't give it up either way the get the check point. If you have the gamer tag report to bungie as being unfriendly etc. No naming and shaming on the forum tho.
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Bearbeitet von Gambit: 7/7/2016 4:55:09 PMThis is why I NEVER give lead to any one except my actual friends that play the game, not people that are just in my friends list but actual friends. My advice would be next time someone says to give them the lead just tell them, "You think your connection is better than mine, go start your own team." Sorry to hear that happened to him. Unfortunately there are some jerks out there but there are more helpful players. Good luck guardian.
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You only have yourself to blame for not having him sooner.
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39 AntwortenBearbeitet von TheOneSandman: 7/7/2016 12:42:45 PMSays it isn't a rant or crying... Goes on to complain about how unfair kicking a kid is... -_- It's just like when someone leads in with "I'm not a racist, but...". You are getting ready to hear one of the most racist things possible. I knew from your opening sentence that you were going to be bitching. You might as well own up to it. You should chalk it up to a life lesson for the child that you didn't teach to be suspicious of strangers. Some people have to learn the hard way. Don't worry, your child's gullibility will get snuffed out eventually. Enough experiences like this will thicken his skin. That or he'll end up in Herbert's basement looking for the free Popsicles...
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1 AntwortenThe thing most schools forget to teach people is to treat others the way you want to be treated. Either that or people are too stupid to learn the most simplest thing. Well, no matter cause they'll learn that what goes around comes around.
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7 AntwortenNo one cares
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O̶n̶l̶i̶n̶e̶ gamers are just jerks my man Every RPG (or any game for that matter) I've played since the runescape days I've seen countless people kicked from groups for being too low a level or having too high pitched a voice over the chat. If you ever want to lose hope in humanity, have a look at the kappa subreddit sometime. It'll make these guys look like your average joe.
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2 AntwortenSame deal happened to my Daughter. She had the CP and posted it up on the Forums. Some guy had 4 friends with him (including a girl from the sounds of it) and sent a friend request saying they could help her. Joined her, went into the CP and immediately asked to take Fireteam leader. Daughter asked him why and he replied that his connection was better than hers. ( I have no idea if that is a thing or not) So she, reluctantly, gave it to him. The guy said something about her being a "Stupid Noob" and immediately booted her. I overheard most of this since she uses the Mic on the Camera and the speakers on the TV in her room. Just damned sad really. She wasn't upset and just went on to join another group doing the raid a few minutes later. Got done in like 20 minutes and checked her friends list an hour later to see the asshat seemed to still be doing King's Fall. No idea if they were having trouble or not or if they started all over.
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1 AntwortenAs shitty as it was for them to do that to him, your lad just has to accept the world is not a respectful place. A lesson all grown ups have learnt. Much worse things will happen to him before he grows up. It's your job to point this out to him and not cry about it on here. By crying about it your setting a bad example once again. When you educate him about the people of this world and he messes up, you are able to highlight once again how strong he needs to be.
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Typical... the Internet really brings out the worst in people
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1 AntwortenDude my 9 year old is a beast at this game and he was kicked in a similar way he plays trials mainly and him and his friends have multiple flawless between them . I suck myself. I've trained him not to join any random group ever . Never use the headset unless I'm there or its with his friends . He has learned to remain very quiet when in a group rho only speaking to make call outs . Bottom line is this . If you don't wanna play with kids then I understand exactly why but just leave . Kids are easily hurt . Don't be that guy
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If ur on PS3 I know some guys that will help ur kid and he won't ever be kicked unless he's being a jerk or join when someone else is coming back
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1 AntwortenThat type of behavior is not becoming of a Guardian of the tower. Maybe he is a spy for the darkness. It's not rocket science guys, just be cool to each other.
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I feel you.
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2 AntwortenThis story is false unless he has his own account. OP's account has not recently played the raid. Regardless, if this story is true, you should teach your kid to never give up fireteam leader abilities to randoms.
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Posts like these really should be directed towards Xbox Live Customer Support and Enforcement and the PS4 counterpart rather than Bungie which is only is charge of Destiny . You had a problem with other people playing not Destiny .
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That is some grade A bullshit.
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That happens to me a lot. I'm very mature, I know every raid, Prison of Elders and crucible map like the back of my hand. People don't kick me, they blame me. Even when it's obvious that it was them that messed up, someone who messes up always blames it on me. Someone steps off there plate 10 seconds to early? My fault (when I'm the runner). And then that causes everyone to dislike me, and then I basically get forced out of the group. Some people boot younger people, some ruin their raid experience but some are very nice. I had a group that my friend and I played with, they weren't happy when we joined the party. But we asked them to give us a chance, and they ended up saying that we were the best and most mature "squeakers" (we aren't squeakers, just obviously not in our 30's :P) they had ever played with. Moral of the story: Give "Squeakers" a chance.
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Agreed it's a Dick move. Glad he laughed it off though.
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3 AntwortenMy kids (10 and 6) play around on my account and my son(6) joined a fireteam he was invited to one day. The mic was on my bed and on, so they could hear him yelling to me that he found friends to play with. I came in and saw them make fireteam leader and he took them to earth and they followed him around and helped him kill low level enemies for 30 minutes. He never actually spoke to them and I could hear them just chatting with each other. Later, I checked my messages and they had sent a message asking if I wanted to do trials, then he joined them. After he finished playing and left their fireteam. they sent a message that said "good game, buddy" They don't all suck.
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9 AntwortenMy biggest problem with playing with kids is that they have no inner monologue...the stream of consciousness babbling is both mind numbing and soul leaching.
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Sounds like you didn't shrug it off...
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4 AntwortenAnd now I know this community has reached a low ball. Asking for lead just to kick a kid out of group? Did we forget we were kids at one point? We didn't just came out as a 1yr old adult.
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I am 15 year old so I would gladly play with him
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Being kicked for being a kid is fine. Having him transfer the lead to then kick him is just dumb.
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5 AntwortenLol tell your son not to hand over the lead then lol your son is at fault there
