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5/12/2016 9:50:38 AM
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First Date Advice
Ok, so I'm in grade 12 and I'm going on my first date soon (I know what a -blam!-ing loser right), it's not officially a date but I'm going to semi treat it as one.
So me and my female friend, who I have a crush on (keep note she goes to a different school to me), are going to go watch Civil War next weekend, and its going to be the closest thing to a date I've ever been on. So I just wanted to see if you guys had any pointers, tips, tricks, or hints. What to do, what to say, how to act, all that business.
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1 AntwortenFinger blast her on the back row
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Don't go to the movie it's a shit first date / make it in the afternoon at a park with a picnic get that car door for her two maybe challenge her to a game putt putt is fun because all the holes look like boners " let her win but not by much, don't want it to seem obvious" -profit
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Make sure you tell her you love her and spill your guts out to her. Chicks dig desperate man babies.
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Put it in her butt.
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Make this https://www.whipclip.com/clip/9y1do your ringtone and have your friend constantly call you but never pick up
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Movies is a really hard place for a date. Its not easy to talk because some can tell you to shut up. Do something afterwards, maybe go for coffee, for a drink if you are legally allowed or for a bite to eat. Then take her to some place romantic. Somewhere quite but not creepy. When you talk show confidence women love confidence. Good luck and may you succeed
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Follow the teachings of Pill Cosby and everything will be fine.
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Bearbeitet von Woupsea: 5/13/2016 9:08:16 AMDo something before/afterwards. After the last movie date I went on (which was unfortunately a pretty long time ago lol) me and the girl went into an open air shopping center after hours and laid down on these big cushion chairs with eachother and watched the starless sky for like two hours. It was great. Don't be tense either, wear cologne if she's into that, maybe get a haircut, dress nice, stand up straight, speak clearly, be flirty, etc. Don't overthink anything. I see the irony here.
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2 AntwortenBearbeitet von moist nana: 5/13/2016 8:37:39 AMMovies a pretty lame date unless it's already established your going to bone. Better off taking her to a nice lookout or somewhere peacefull IF your looking for some insta-action. Anyway Movie dates, 2 things. 1) do you know if she likes you ( as in ;);) like) if your around the 70% sure mark. Make a move, -blam!- the movie and molest eachother. 2) if it's unkown if she likes you or or not, make it a movie/dinner date. Dinner dates are good as you can exert your male dominance and show her how good you are with women, she'll like that and it'll increase your chances of getting lucky later on in the movie.
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1 AntwortenBearbeitet von Olmeck: 5/12/2016 3:03:07 PMWell if the only thing you will be doing is watching a movie for two hours without talking you are screwed. If you can make it more than just a movie. So plan something where you two can talk before or after the movie. I.e. Get ice cream afterwards so you can talk about the movie and hopefully other things about each other. Trust me she will remember that more than the movie and it opens a line of dialogue. Sitting silently next to each other for two hours isn't much of a date. Remember to open all doors for her, to look in her eyes while talking, give her your full attention, and ask questions. Edit: don't listen to the post below me and treat her with respect. Don't make a move. That should come after a couple dates and the feelings are reciprocal and it feels right/natural.
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4 AntwortenTry turning it off and on again
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If you think you have a shot: relax, don't put too much pressure on this date, be yourself and have fun. If she's just a friend and you want more: be super confident, give complements and make your intentions known.
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2 AntwortenDo something either before the movie or after it, go to dinner, get ice cream or something. Just something where you're able to talk.
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If possible take her out and do something after the movie if you also get to teach her something new that would be really great. Aka take her to a driving range if you know golf perfect excuse for close personal contact.
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Be yourself. Don't focus on "wooing" her. Get to know her, let her learn about you, and start to gauge whether you like who she is enough to keep trying. Relationships, if you're looking for one, are about being compatible. She can be hotter than the sun to you physically, but if you have nothing in common, or just don't get along, then being with her will still be detrimental for both of you. Act how you normally would when you meet new people and if it works, great. If not, you two probably don't fit very well anyway.
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The best advice I can give is focus on her, not yourself. If you start worrying about what [i]you[/i] should do or say in every single moment, you'll probably miss out on her body language or what she's saying. So just relax, and have a fun time.
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Go to her door to pick her up, don't just text from your car that you're there. Open all doors. Movies aren't really great for dates but on the drive there if she or you mentions something sounds cool or good (food, activities, what have you) then maybe make a non chalant comment about maybe you all could do it sometime. If you're unsure if it's a date maybe hold off on the flowers or up front expression. Just gauge the situation. Pay for her stuff. Just act nice. Don't listen to all that girls like douchebags. If she does, then she isn't the one for you and needs to grow up. However, don't be a complete push over.
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Put your arm awkwardly around her during the movie.
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Dress well. Girls like button up shirts with the sleeves rolled, trust me. Be respectful, pay for her shit. Avoid wearing a hat. Shower.
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4 Antworten[quote](keep note she goes to a different school to me).[/quote] [quote]to a different school to me[/quote] [quote]school to me[/quote] [quote]to me[/quote] [quote][b][i][u]TO?![/u][/i][/b][/quote] I have a little bit of advice, work on your grammar skills. ;)
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1 AntwortenMovies are horrible first dates, not to psych you out, but it's kind of hard to deposit the wagon in her dumper in a movie theatre.
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Buy her food Dont talk during the movie
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Don't be a weirdo
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1 Antworten1. Don't try to impress her. That's what every guy does. Not trying to impress her will impress her. 2. Lower the standards of what comes out of your mouth. Don't worry about what you say, act like you are talking to one of your friends. 3. Make your goal for the night to act like yourself for the most amount of time as possible. 4. Hold her hand if you are crossing the street or walking into the movie theatre. Don't ask, just grab it nonchalantly. Even if she isn't into you, she will still appreciate this. 5. Pee on her to assert dominance (just kidding don't do this.....yet)
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Be yourself and don't expect anything. That'll take the pressure off and you'll have a good time no matter the outcome. And above all else, [i]be yourself.[/i]
