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I met this guy and I think I love him, but he lives in Texas and I live in Britain. I just want to know in advance so when we come to making the decision, I have an idea straight away. This isn't really the place to ask advice, I know that, but I've already got opinions off friends and family, just need that extra push.
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    • Life is precious, and suicide is a serious issue to be handled by licensed professionals. Bungie employees and forum moderators are not trained to handle those in a suicidal crisis; please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255). You may also wish to contact any of the following crisis prevention resources: US: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org www.spanusa.org UK: http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/Suicide/Pages/Getting-help.aspx Canada: http://suicideprevention.ca/thinking-about-suicide/find-a-crisis-centre/ International Directory: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html Military Crisis Line: Active duty, Guard and reserve service members, their families and friends stateside and in Europe have 24/7 access to the Military Crisis Line at no cost. For crisis support, those in the U.S. call 800-273-8255, then press 1. Callers in Europe dial 00800-1273-8255 or DSN 118. The toll-free service in Europe may not be available through all carriers or in all countries. Military[/i] One Source Toll Free Number: 800-342-9647 Military One Source Crisis Prevention: http://m.militaryonesource.mil/crisis-prevention

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    • Life is precious, and suicide is a serious issue to be handled by licensed professionals. Bungie employees and forum moderators are not trained to handle those in a suicidal crisis; please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255). You may also wish to contact any of the following crisis prevention resources: US: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org www.spanusa.org UK: http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/Suicide/Pages/Getting-help.aspx Canada: http://suicideprevention.ca/thinking-about-suicide/find-a-crisis-centre/ International Directory: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html Military Crisis Line: Active duty, Guard and reserve service members, their families and friends stateside and in Europe have 24/7 access to the Military Crisis Line at no cost. For crisis support, those in the U.S. call 800-273-8255, then press 1. Callers in Europe dial 00800-1273-8255 or DSN 118. The toll-free service in Europe may not be available through all carriers or in all countries. Military[/i] One Source Toll Free Number: 800-342-9647 Military One Source Crisis Prevention: http://m.militaryonesource.mil/crisis-prevention

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    • Life is precious, and suicide is a serious issue to be handled by licensed professionals. Bungie employees and forum moderators are not trained to handle those in a suicidal crisis; please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255). You may also wish to contact any of the following crisis prevention resources: US: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org www.spanusa.org UK: http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/Suicide/Pages/Getting-help.aspx Canada: http://suicideprevention.ca/thinking-about-suicide/find-a-crisis-centre/ International Directory: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html Military Crisis Line: Active duty, Guard and reserve service members, their families and friends stateside and in Europe have 24/7 access to the Military Crisis Line at no cost. For crisis support, those in the U.S. call 800-273-8255, then press 1. Callers in Europe dial 00800-1273-8255 or DSN 118. The toll-free service in Europe may not be available through all carriers or in all countries. Military[/i] One Source Toll Free Number: 800-342-9647 Military One Source Crisis Prevention: http://m.militaryonesource.mil/crisis-prevention

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    • Where in Texas? I can beat him up. [spoiler]chill, just a prank [/spoiler]

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    • I actually have the same problem with an Italian girl, I met in a student exchange (?) I live in Germany, and we will see each other again in about 4 weeks. But after that, it's going to be difficult. Because both of us are not 18+, so it will be hard to meet again. I thought about traveling to Italy in the summer holidays. For maybe 1-2 weeks. But after THAT time, I honestly have NO clue how it will work. Because we will finish school, probably going to university...... [u]But to answer your question:[/u] If you really love him, you should at least try it. Of course you can't see everyday. But a solution would be maybe "Skype". I do that with her, and it seems to work :) And when he and you have some vacation, you both can meet. ^^ But anyways: [i]Good luck with that relationship![/i] :)

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      • Being in a long distant relationship is hard but if that person is honest and loyal and you trust him/her, its worth it. Its harder purely because there's no physical contact and often you will feel useless if the other is going through a hard time and there's nothing you can do but.. Talk but again, some people are worth waiting for. And really, the times you can actually be with each other (when you can afford it) are more special and better than when you can see each other every day. But that's just my opinion. And that whole stuff of "you never know if they're cheating or not", really? You can see each other every day and they can still cheat on you without you noticing it. Just follow your heart. If you really love that person and you both have plans to see each other, go for it!

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        • I was in a long distance relationship for a year. Let's just say it didn't work out at the end.

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            That's like asking is love worth it lol

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            • a more pressing matter: are penis polls worth it?

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              • *penis poll* ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) we did good

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              • Hell no

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              • I spy with my scrying eye, a penis poll in its finest.

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                • No. What's even the point of that? Do you at least share nudes? Can we see them?

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                • Yes I've been with my girl friend for A year and 8 months she's only five hours away but if you think you'll never see them it'll be a lot harder I can see her sometimes which helps a lot. Once she finishes college it'll get a lot better in everyway. Love is a powerful thing.

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                • Its a long shot but its usually worth it.

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                • I know a couple that started long distance but she went to move in with him Which honestly that's ballsy as fk but 8f you can handle yourself and know how to survive without lowering your self respect then Idk But for them it seems to work alright as of now in long term Idk that's up to them Personally I'd go and pray to have God in yur heart and meditate on it to see if it's worth having

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                • Long distance relationships rarely work, especially given you two are in different countries. My advice is to talk about the elephants in the room. Who will be the one to move to the other country? Will your financial situations be enough for a long distance relationship? What will you both do about college? Etc. etc. make sure this is something you both want long-term and talk about any foreseeable problems you two might have in the future.

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                • Sorry at the end of the day you're both human and have needs. If he is in early 20s then he will have a unyielding appetite for sex. He will need it like a fat boy needs cake. Sorry, however I'm older and don't need it as much. Call me

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                  • My wife and I have been at it for five years. Granted it is only 2 hours away that we live. But we both own and run businesses that keep us both very busy. So we are lucky to see each other once a week and every other week we get to actually spend the night together. So it's up to you, some nights I would really enjoy her company and on others I truly enjoy the solitude.

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                  • Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Ultimately it's all dependent on the two of you. I made a long distance relationship work for about a year, if I recall correctly, but eventually we both realized that the sentiment was fading and the odds of us actually meeting up in person were unlikely, so we cut it off. There are certain keys to making that sort of relationship work, some of which are the same for a normal relationship. Honesty, communication, and commitment, with the additional understanding that eventually you both want to make the transition from long distance, to a normal "in the flesh" relationship. If you can maintain the connection until that point, you're pretty well off, but it can be quite difficult at times.

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                  • Off topic probably isn't the right place to ask these questions, but if I'd put my thoughts into your circumstance I'd need a bit more info other then what was provided.

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                  • I find that it is not a good way to have a relationship. It makes it much harder to get to know a person. They could keep information from you like they're part of a cult or they're an alien. In all seriousness it is not worth it to leave your family for one person. There will be other people but not other family members.

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                  • Penis poll!!!

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