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3/6/2016 9:29:20 PM
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Physically disciplining your child
I'm for it say what you think on this touchy subject
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#Offtopic
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Can't vote, no middle ground option.
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Yes but only on occasion. More of a every once in a while smack. Not every time they do something wrong.
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U don't even need to these days just take there phone and console
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If you mean beating them, no. If you mean telling them to excercise thoroughly (for their age), yes.
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Bearbeitet von Dabest: 3/8/2016 12:38:00 PMNah dude you gotta use a belt teach me the hard way ;) Edit: NOT ME THEM OMG
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3 Antworten-sister shouts at parents -gets a talking to -I shout at my parents -get slapped in the face Of course now I'm older it doesn't happen but I would hate it how I would get hit and she wouldn't. There is no favoritism in my family so I wonder why. I think parents only hit boys because they think oh boys are stronger and they can take it but I disagree. Equal punishment or no punishment. I think kids should never be hit.
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Look, some kids just don't wanna listen, good words, bad words, gestures. Thn the mighty slap on the buttcheeks should be applied. With impact through clothes so tht it won't really hurt but to warn the damn thing to stop eating shit or whatever.
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It's the most effective method.
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3 AntwortenMost are saying that it is ok up to a point but some times it's unnecessary. I'd agree. I was once kicked as a kid by a babysitter for spilling a glass of oj. Made me hell of a lot tougher. But definitely not necessary.
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4 AntwortenA breakdown of the comments- 75%- it happened to me so it must be ok because I turned out alright. 25%- studies show that there are better ways to discipline children instead of beating them. 75%- nu-uh! I'm alright and I was spanked as a child, it taught me respect unlike you pussies! 25%- that doesn't sound very logical or respectful...
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8 AntwortenTeach a child that violence solves problems? Yeah what could go wrong with that...
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14 AntwortenIf you beat your kids ass, the biggest thing you're teaching them is that they should beat the asses of their future kids. You're instilling fear more than you are respect. Maybe parents should just get better with their responsibilities. I was never physically disciplined, nor were any of the other children of my family. We're fine.
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26 AntwortenMy parents spanked me as a child, therefore I have a rare disease called [i][b]Respect for others[/b][/i]
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Just a spank is alright, i suppose. But, if that punishment causing bruise, bleed, or anything you need to go to see hospital, then that's more of abuse.
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6 AntwortenBearbeitet von Sapphire: 3/8/2016 8:07:26 AMWell I already kind of replied to this but I'm going to make a longer reply because I'm bored and this is a subject a feel strongly about. As I said in my last comment, that "parenting technique" was used on me. I am strongly against it. I'm a shy person and feel anxious when a lot of attention is in me. In high school, this subject came up in class. I decided to put my opinion out there are say how I was strongly against it. I said it in a way that was surprisingly "strong." Some guy sitting a bit behind me laughed. I don't know of that made me feel bad at the time or if I was in the moment so much that I didn't care. There was been negative repercussions on me because of that, and you may be thinking "oh RH, there must have been other stuff too to make it that way," and you're right. But it was a factor. And I will absolutely not condone or approve of something that can contribute to and be a part of that awful parenting style: [b]using fear.[/b] It's such an awful parenting technique, at least when it was used on me. Only one of my parents was [i]really[/i] like that. I chose to stop seeing them when I was 14. So no, it never ended up as "oh, you'll understand later." No. It's wrong. It's shitty, lazy, destructive parenting. And all of you people who decide to use fear to discipline your children can go to hell.
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I don't know how most of you came up with what you are saying....my parents never ever laid a hand on me...but I never thought about being dishonest to them...maybe it's because i grew up in steady house...i have shown respect to all of the elders i met...I'm an adult now,it still confuses me that children actually behave that way.im not a parent,but I guess there are some times that minor physical way is acceptable if the kids get way way of the road
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19 AntwortenI honestly have a very emotional opinion on this matter, but I doubt anyone wants to waste their time with reading my ranting.
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13 AntwortenNot when you're a 4 year old. My dad slapped me too hard and made me bleed from my nose. Physically disciplining your child when he/she is still a kid, is unacceptable.
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My mom would just say don't do it again and look at me, I'm perfectly fine.
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What's with the anecdotes?
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5 AntwortenMy mom slammed me on a table because I didn't want to learn math, she has thrown sandals, shoes, boxes, a control and glass cup (we're mexican), she has pretty much headbutted me a few times and I feel fine, I learned that she was educating me and how to be a better person.
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Whenever I was a bad kid. I would get the shit beat it. Even if I was talking back or gave any kind of disrespect. It's a good thing. I learned respect at a young age.
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I approve. It was how I was taught.
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My mom has thrown garbage cans at me and in good
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1 AntwortenI never got slapped, punched, or hit with a belt or something, but I did get spanked. I think that it's only effective at a young age, and you can't do it too hard.
