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3/6/2016 9:29:20 PM
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Physically disciplining your child
I'm for it say what you think on this touchy subject
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depends on how bad they were acting and how often they are bad
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Just flog them
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To a certain point yes, but if you hurt them hell no its not.
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Not every child is the same and spankings need to be cut off at a certain point before adolescents. Some kids respond differently to different forms of punishment, and as they get older new methods of discipline need to be made or adjusted
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Bearbeitet von Canad1anBacon37: 3/8/2016 5:35:27 PMIt's fine, but not always good for them. Depending on the child, it may be a less effective form of punishment than other methods.
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That's how I was raised
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8 AntwortenThere are better punishments, sure a stinging butt hurts, but no consoles for a week will get better results.
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[b]Properly understood and administered, spanking is most effective as a deterrent to undesirable behavior for younger preschoolers (but never for infants). [/b] That’s because reasoning, and taking away privileges often, simply don’t work with the majority of kids in that age range. As children age, spanking should become even less frequent as other types of consequences are utilized. Spanking should be phased out completely before adolescence. What we want children to understand is that the gentle sting of a spanking is connected to the greater and often long-term pain of harmful choices. Simply put, prevention is easier than cure. A child should always receive a clear warning before any offense that might merit a spanking and understand why they are receiving this disciplinary action. If he or she deliberately disobeys, the child should be informed of the upcoming spanking and escorted to a private area. The spanking should be lovingly administered in a clear and consistent manner. Afterward, the lesson should be gently reiterated so that the child understands and learns from this teachable experience.
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Depends on the kid. My son won't learn from physical punishment, just can't for some reason. His stubbornness outweighs his stinging butt. If I ground him from video games.....Niagara Falls. My nephew on the other hand, is the exact opposite. If you try talking to him or grounding him, he will do whatever he can to intentionally piss everyone around him off. Send him to his room and he'll sit there and kick the wall for hours, ask him to quit doing/saying something and he'll do it twice as much just to piss you off cause he thinks it's funny. Bend him over a knee and use a belt? He straightens up right away.
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Bearbeitet von RobRodz79: 3/8/2016 3:40:03 PMI'd say spanking is okay. As a kid I would always get spanked and after that I usually knew not to do whatever I did again.
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1 AntwortenPicture this, you act like a fool in Walmart as a little kid (running off and touching everything) and your parent is tired of it. What would you make you learn that it's not okay to do that, getting spanked or getting yelled at?
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1 AntwortenI'm all for it, but never in anger.
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There is a difference between discipline and abuse. Im still debating whether or not physical discipline is 100% required to actually discipline a child. But a little slap on the hand when needed is not entirely bad. However, taking it way too far is a problem that even I experienced. It doesnt discipline you, however, it does make you fear your actions.
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2 AntwortenI mean, the threat of it was enough for me.
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Bearbeitet von Odd Ball M4AE4: 3/8/2016 5:39:40 AMI was raised on the concept of,"You do that again,I'm gonna spank ya till ya can't sit down". Of course,I was a brat back then,so I stood up a lot at dinner.
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Everyone who says no here is using examples that are not appropriate. There are appropriate ways/times to physically discipline a child
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2 AntwortenThere's a lot of people in prison right now who didn't have proper parenting, didn't have anyone to tell them "no" and mean it, didn't have parents who would discipline them when they did wrong, and didn't have anyone to nurture or provide positive reinforcement when they did right. Disciplining/spanking a child is not abuse. We've been allowing certain groups to weed out things like this and other traditional family values and moral teachings for too long. We've been making excuses for people and providing them the means with which to be degenerate and raise new generations more degenerate than the last. If we honestly hope to improve the situation then we need to place far more emphasis on family, morals, values, respect, but more importantly, personal responsibility.
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3 AntwortenWhen a kid with a less developed brain does something wrong but doesn't understand it a slap on the wrist or a spanking is a good way to discourage them from doing something bad, best not to let bad habits develop early on. But it becomes abuse if you cause them real harm. As they get older though and can understand right from wrong physically disciplining a child is slightly odd as a short talk could achieve the same result with no pain
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Bearbeitet von oSPARTYoh: 3/8/2016 9:47:09 AMBeating children is wrong. Spanking is not. Don't tell other people how to raise their children. You want to take away your 3 year old's banky or put them in time out, fine, that's your business. I'm gonna give mine a light smack on the tush and a mandatory nap. Spanking is not violent.
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Depends on the child...some children are a much tougher challenge for parents...thus forcing the parent to take drastic action and spanking a child...at times maybe the parent isn't tough enough...but other factors can come to play also such as living environment, bad friends, or past horrors a child had such as molestation, abuse etc etc...I see why some older parents say you are never ready for parenthood, there's just some problems you won't be able to solve for your child, some things you won't be able to control, just have to be the best parent you can be and hope the best for your child
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1 AntwortenIn moderation... Yes
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To a certain extent, if you were constantly beating your child, then that won't be such a great idea.....
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Not beating thin but spanking them and slapping there hand. And not as hard as you can.
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5 AntwortenIs setting your child on fire a good way to teach them how hot fire is?
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Physical punishment teaches kids to be afraid of being hit rather than the real-life consequence. Tell them [b]why[/b] they shouldn't do something and they will listen more than if you had just hit them. Hitting them teaches them to fear you rather than respecting you. Also, respect your children. Nobody wants to listen to a parent who hurts them, disrespects them, and pretends to have authority over them just because the parent is older.
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Can't vote, no middle ground option.
