I'm relatively sure she didn't want to annoy him, but I don't see what that has to do with whether he's done something wrong. He cannot change the way he [i]feels[/i], he can only control how he [i]acts[/i]. From what he's said, he accepted the gift graciously and rather than let it gather dust, will sell it to someone who can use it and use the money for something positive - exactly the sort of behavior encouraged by the book anyway. It just sounds like you called him a douchebag because you are offended he doesn't buy into your particular religion.