I guess some of the children think life consists of only work, then destiny. It would be crazy to think you have normal things to do before/after work like be with your children, clean, make dinner for your family, help your children with homework, get them ready for bed, etc. The list of everyday things people need to do outside of work goes on and on. But, no, you need to make time for destiny. If you don't do any of those things besides work and play destiny then you shouldn't be complaining.