I agree with you that work makes it difficult to enjoy every aspect of the game. But I don't agree that's a reason for change. Any successful game has the hardcore grinders who get all the special stuff, and the casuals who might get it eventually. Just gotta time yourself and check the destiny app to see what the daily is. If possible teach your wife/girlfriend how to play and ask her to check for you. That's what I did. Also, ignore most of the hateful comments. Just a bunch of Xbox warriors who have no jobs and probably dropped out of school and live in their parents basement.