Although I am in a similar position and can't play every day I feel like that's what makes the game more intriguing. It adds more prestige to obtaining a weapon or item especially if you miss it the first time around. I am working on getting my exotic sword finally and I'm close to finishing the quest line. People have had the swords for weeks but I'll still feel pretty damn good when I get my first one. You'll get the black spindle and the sleeper simulant in due time my friend. No need to ask Bungie to change the game.