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Edited by Foxy:
9/23/2013 5:27:36 PM
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Why do so many guys have trouble talking to girls?
Seriously why is this a problem?
Everyone keeps putting each other down about how they are such "betas" and yet there are threads after threads of girl problems.
1) if you're serious then this is the wrong place for advice
2) grow up a bit. You don't always need to be in a relationship to be happy. If you really want to talk to your crush then do it!!! Stop cutting yourself off.
Also if someone scares you that much that you can't talk to them, why do you want to talk? There are other people that look just as good and you can talk to.
My two cents.
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1 ReplyI have no problem talking to females. We share so much in common in terms of interest, fashion, hobbies and which sex we like. X3
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3 RepliesLack of confidence. Duh.
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1 ReplyEdited by Studness4: 9/24/2013 4:53:14 PMAllright brahs, real talk time. This guy has the right idea. If you aren't happy being alone you aren't any good in a relationship. Find your independence and self sufficiency. Don't rely on anyone to be who you want to be.Take care of yourself and your image. You can either be a sad, lonely single guy who is miserable and needs a girlfriend to be complete. Or you can be a badass one who loves being single and playing the field and if he happens to find the right girl gives a relationship a chance. Your choice.
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4 RepliesGot a haircut over the weekend, dressed nicely, shaved closely. Hyped myself up that today was the day I would at least say something to her. Look back at her during class just to show I'm interested. All ready to talk to her after, think about it all class. Can't do it. Feel like a failure. Next opportunity would be Thursday. Awkward situation, don't even know her name. But she's cute so why not at least try? I can't talk to women though, I'm like that guy from the Big Bang theory, I can only talk to women if I have something to drink.
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1 ReplyAll male school and then dropped feet-first into university.
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1 ReplyEdited by Cart of Onions: 9/24/2013 1:01:52 AMI have no idea, asking the flood for advice is like asking yahoo answers for it. Not likely to get anything good and more often than not trolling/loling will take place.
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4 RepliesGirls are scawwy :<
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3 RepliesEdited by risay_117: 9/24/2013 12:47:06 AMMe it began when i lived in a male oriented family and went to a male only school. As i was not that much of a player or even had much contact with girls. Also an introvert it heavily effected me, but now i just talk to any girl, only problem is for me is how to start a relationship, and finding which girl is occupied and which is not.
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1 Reply>Asperger's I can't tell when a girl is in to me or not. I end up asking them and that can get a bit weird...
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1 Reply[quote]You don't always need to be in a relationship to be happy. [/quote]But I do need one to stop being lonely, it'd be nice to find my other half. [quote]If you really want to talk to your crush then do it!!! Stop cutting yourself off. [/quote]I'm not exactly a looker, and I have a lack of basic hygiene. I don't have the money right now to fix either, I want to talk to the ones I like but I know that I would come across as a creeper in my current state. [quote]Also if someone scares you that much that you can't talk to them, why do you want to talk? There are other people that look just as good and you can talk to. [/quote]The only other people that look just as good are other girls I have problems talking too for reasons stated above.
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7 Replies[quote]Seriously why is this a problem? [/quote] A natural human fear: The fear of being judged.
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1 Replybecause they actually like boys
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1 ReplyThey have cooties. Duh.
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6 RepliesCause girls is bullshit! They flirt and then nothing they don't do shit
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2 RepliesI been rejected once and I'm scared that'll happen again
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14 Replies^^^ This kid is my hero. He wanted to take a porn star to prom. So he asked. SIX HUNDRED TIMES. And what do you know. He got a yes. Get your asses out there and start asking. He could do it, so could you.
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7 RepliesMy 69 cents[spoiler] actually, pennies don't exist in Canada anymore :([/spoiler]
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1 ReplyI never had a problem talking to girls
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2 RepliesMy three cents.
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8 RepliesWell, I dunno when is appropriate to talk and when isn't. Like today, this girl I usually talk to had headphones in, so I was just like 'do I interrupt her music or not?' so I just ended up awkwardly tagging behind because it just wasnt clear what I was supposed to do
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7 RepliesBecause im ugly and short?
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4 RepliesBecause it's not something that happens on a day-to-day basis for me.
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4 RepliesThey are afraid of rejection. I did outside sales for a long time. The job entailed going out and knocking on doors and making phone calls all day, every day. If you hustled, you could make good money. Anyways, every so often we'd get a new guy who wouldn't go out, or pick up the phone. He was afraid of being told no. So he just never asked. Those guys lasted only 6 weeks or so. They just would never get it that sometimes they say yes, too. The best hitters in baseball hit one out of every three. That means 66% of the time they miss. Just get over it.
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20 RepliesHonestly, this community is probably the worst of it's kind when talking to woman. From experience in the off topic forum, and many other forums. What has been posted, suggest that the majority of people here are nerdy, fat/skinny, un healthy folks. And any sain, pretty lady, would most defiantly walk on by each and every one of them. But, if your asking how to speak to a lady yourself. Trust me; Just go speak to her, if you stutter, she might thinks its cute, if you cant think of anything to say, TELL HER you dont know what to say, but tell she is pretty, or gourgess. Simple shit, the worst thing that can happen is she says no. The world will still spin if she says no. I walked into a mall 4 years ago before i met my Fiance, i walked up to each pretty lady and asked her out. I was told no like 60 something times. But I walked out of that mall with 11# from very cute ladies. BOOYAAAA BITCHS. But that is all behind me now, nows its about being a father, video games, paying the bills. Yup. :)
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2 Replieslol it's the internet dude. Furthermore it's the Flood of B net so I'm pretty sure there's a grand total of 5 people taking any thread seriously.
