I don't understand, I'm a confident, decent guy with passion who is looking for a serious relationship.
I consider myself to be good looking and I do have tastes of what I want to find in a girl. I work out, have a healthy lifestyle and very social and enjoy traveling mostly and being an adventure.
What is it with girls barely noticing me that turns me off? I have multiple photos of me out on trips also in professional clothing and also being classy at the same time.
Aren't I good looking? Am I looking at this too much? I just need advice cause all these dating websites are beging to suck.
I do have success with dating girls in real life but I thought I'd try online to see what I can catch.
Trust me I try not to go for girls that are out of my lead. I really like cute girls as a matter of fact. Its time like these I need help understanding what I'm doing wrong and where I should go from here.
Any advice from any guys or girls please let me know.
Also I'm Italian and from Canada. Canadian girls seem tougher to get.
I'm also 23 just to give you an idea.
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If you were a good looking Italian than you wouldn't need yo resort to dating sites, the prey will be coming to you.
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just make your profile pic your dick
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15 RepliesEdited by Princess Anomaly: 4/8/2016 2:27:51 AMYour pictures aren't as important as you might think. Most women I know are far less concerned about looks than men generally are, and are much more interested in the content of your profile. What have you written about yourself? Also, do you send messages? If you don't, it's very unlikely anyone's gonna message you first. If you do, what do you say? Some here are saying it's a "numbers game," and that may be partially true. But if you send the same copy/pasted message to every girl you're interested in, no one's gonna respond. Pretty much every woman I know ignores obviously copy/pasted messages. And just saying "hey" isn't gonna do it, either. Nor is opening with pet names, compliments based purely on looks, or anything sexual. Don't ask if they wanna have sex with you. Don't talk about your dick. Ever. Don't make sexual advances of any kind. You want a girl to message you back? Take the time to fill out your profile genuinely, don't be lazy about it. If you're going to message a girl, [i]read her profile all the way through first[/i], and then write a sincere message that mentions common interests (not sex) you discerned from reading her profile. That way she knows you took the time to read it and are interested in getting to know her, not just trying to get in her pants cuz she's physically attractive. Be polite, don't talk about sex or your dick, respect her, don't objectify her in any way, and you might have some luck.
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Get a puppy. Bitches love puppies
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Maybe people think you're fake. Maybe people think you're stuck up. Maybe you should be assertive.
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Don't ask offtopic for life advice.
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You sound very needy. What else is wrong with you?
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Edited by ThePresident: 4/8/2016 8:04:13 PMStep 1. Surround yourself with shy girls Step 2. Do something nice for one of them Step 3. Instant gf
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This very post is the problem. Come to terms with that fact that you simply aren't that attractive or interesting and move on. Once you realize that, reshaping yourself isn't hard. Whenever I spend time somewhere and move on IRL, people remember me. My jokes aren't always funny, and not everyone likes me. I polarize because I'm distinct. Learn to have your own flair, be someone, there is always someone who will like what you are.
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2 RepliesIf you're as good looking as you "claim", just troll around high traffic areas [people are constantly in and out of] and flirt with anything that catches your attention.
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[quote]online dating websites[/quote] I found your problem.
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People seem like they're only attracted to me because of my looks because they pretty much abandon or forget about me when they get to know my entire personality. I don't think I'm boring and I don't think I'm doing anything wrong but it just happens.
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[quote]Canadian girls seem tougher to get.[/quote] ALL girls. At least the ones that each individual is more interested in.
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What does you're bio say? Chicks read that and if it seems boring they might think you're boring
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1. You aren't on farmersonly.com 2. You look like a skinny Saul from Impractical Jokers
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Also like tinder it's every hot girl getting messages by 20 guys she has her pick of. So you gotta be the cream of the crop in at least 1 persons opinion
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3 RepliesFirst piece of advice, don't take advice about women from lesbos and trannies. You're welcome.
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Because you have to ask "aren't I good looking" without us seeing you
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1 ReplyYou access Offtopic. That's a good warning sign to bail.
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Just stick to real life dating if online isn't working out for you.
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2 RepliesReminds me of Markiplier
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Go watch the two Dating Sim Game Theory videos, they are more on online dating tips than dating sims. Actually was very helpful. Say Howdy to increase chances of reply by 20%.
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1 ReplyUse small furry animals. Endless supply of them.
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This post alone makes you sound like a [url=https://cdn-webimages.wimages.net/0516bc22cce3a96896986eabb5ce17253d937-wm.jpg]supreme gentleman[/url]. Y'all are coming across not only as desperate, but also as if you expect women to throw themselves at you. It don't work that way, man. Sometimes it takes a while to find that certain somebody. Life's a marathon, not a sprint.
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1. You aren't on farmersonly.com 2. You look like a skinny Saul from Impractical Jokers