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Edited by peetos:
5/7/2016 3:36:51 AM
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"Hey Dad, im gay"
All this hate towards gays, transsexuals makes me wonder. what if one of your kids decides to come out or identifies as male/female. what do you do? and lets be honest
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Edited by SirBigWater: 5/6/2016 8:47:05 AMNow I could get somebody being gay, bi, or not into any of that. But somebody who thinks they are the opposite gender (or if they think there are more than two genders) go way over my head. But I do not care;, let them be what they want to be. So if my kid decided to do that, I would [b][i]support[/i][/b] them.
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I'd be totally supportive, no reason not to be. Being against this sort of thing is just ignorance to be frank.
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Id be fine with it. But transgend, that's hard. I'd talk to them about that. Like, I understand how they feel they are more comfortable as the opposite of what they are, but it's just that it's weird when your son/daughter completely changes. Like, if you're born a girl, then I'd like you to always be my little girl. You know?
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1 ReplyHi gay, I'm dad
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Edited by Sirgoniat: 5/6/2016 7:05:21 AMHell no! I raised my kids as a transqueer demisexual helicopter kin and thats how they're going to stay! Also, your post triggered me
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I would tell them that you are not female you are male now go find a lady and have sex with her
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I would let them know that I don't agree with it but it's their life. Just know that you will have struggles and hard ships that the average person won't understand and won't empathize with. Being Gay is fine , as long as it doesn't define you. Being straight doesn't define who I am , it just informs my choices.
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Edited by Masque of Night: 5/6/2016 2:49:35 AMWell, i'm bisexual, and also had doubts about my own gender for a pretty decent span of time. I understand what it's like to be able to feel an attraction to the same sex and also what it's like to feel estranged or uncomfortable with the parts you were born with. All that being said, well...there's really nothing for me to get pissy about. To me, being a successful parent means ensuring that my child is socially well-adjusted, responsible, and happy with the path that their live takes. Gay, straight, bi, trans, doesn't matter. You can be any of these things and still live a full, healthy life. And the odds of doing so are all the better if you have a family that can understand and sympathize with you.
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Son/daughter: I'm gay Me: Cool story. I'm bi. Now go clean your room. Son/daughter: I think I'm trans. Me: Well... let's figure how to make the boys/girls want you. We're going shopping bitch!
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3 RepliesI'd definitely support my daughter being lesbian. What father wouldn't?
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What are you, fuc[i]ki[/i]ng gay?
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"That's nice. Just be back before supper."
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3 RepliesGay is one thing. I have 2 sons and a daughter, if any of them came out gay, it would not bother me in the slightest, I would support it. With that being said, I wouldn't be able to handle a trans situation. I'm not trying to come across as an a-hole, I'm just being honest. It's straight up -blam!-ing weird. And I'm not okay with all this trans acceptance stuff being shoved down everyone's throat. If you want to pretend to be the opposite gender, that's fine, it doesn't affect me at all and I won't say anything negative about it, but once myself and my children are forced to accept it, and act like it's not weird, that does affect me and I will speak up about it being -blam!-ing weird.
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2 RepliesGay? Wouldnt care too much I would be upset if my child was trans I would still love them, but not support that under my roof They can do that shit when they move out
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6 RepliesI don't really care if my kid was gay. But they aren't going to "identify" as a different gender.
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That implies that I'm going to have kids in the first place
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2 RepliesHey gay, im dad
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"You have dishonored this famiry, get out of my my house! No son of mine will want Ds, you aim for As and nothing less" [spoiler]Seriously though? I'd check myself into a mental institution for listening to voices in my head and pretending they're my offspring.[/spoiler]
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Where's the whip
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Hi gay, I'm dad
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2 RepliesWell honestly, have a discussion on why my child believes this about their self. After that it depends on where the discussion goes
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Edited by Sawk monkey: 5/6/2016 2:54:36 AMDid you just use a comma in the place of the word "and" in a sentence? Dude just... No...
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People used discriminate different races, religions, and genders a large amount. With time the prejudice against gays/trans will stop as well
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If I had a son who came out as gay, I'd just say "Ok" and move on with my day. It shouldn't be a big deal. If you're gay, you're gay. If you're trans, you're trans. No big deal.
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Beat him
