Are you one of those dumb people that thinks spanking your child is abusive? Edit: I see some of the people here dont know how to properly punish their child. I am 18 years old and I have never done drugs, smoked, or drank. I learned about consequences because my parents always spanked me for doing something wrong. If they hadnt, I might have grown up thinking that I dont have to worry about consequences I dont resent my parents at all. They are some of the best people I know. I do, however, know a kid that does drugs, disrespects teachers, and thinks he is "all that". He was never spanked.