Didn't want to do this as the flood gets these threads all the time, but I feel the need to just let it out
Alright there's this girl that I been friends with for about 6 years now. She's my neighbor and now I want to go further with it. The thing is:I lock up. I can talk to her, make her laugh and I can show I'm dependable for myself but just asking her out in general I just can't
So liek I need halp
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Stik et en teh pooper
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Edited by SuperIrish: 1/6/2014 10:50:44 PMAsk her if she wants to go to a film (or some activity you both like doing, you know her enough) with you. Simple as.
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Edited by RomanGladiator7: 1/6/2014 10:45:17 PMDress up as Darth Vader. Knock on her door. Say "You will date me, or die" and mock force choke her.
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1 ReplyEdited by Banned Gatsby: 1/6/2014 9:22:11 PMNext time you see her don't think about what you should say before hand or think of any leads up to the question. Next time you see her just say hi, ask her about her day and then just go for it.
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Just when I thought the betas on this site couldn't get any more pathetic. 6 years? [I][B]6 YEARS?[/I][/B] You've liked this girl for 6 years now, and you haven't made a move? I hate to break it to you, but unless you're ripped you have no chance with this girl. Based off your displayed confidence level I'm going to guess that you aren't. You were friendzoned years ago it's time to move on.
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>Hey Anon want to go to the movies >Make shitty joke >??? >Profit
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You're in no place to get her. Work on your anxiety before you even contemplate getting girls. Hard truth.
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If she's a good friend, and a decent person, then she wouldn't be scared of you or try to avoid you if she figured out that you liked her. Based on a ton of my old friends, what [b]is[/b] creepy is when you try to sidestep around the fact that you like her, hint at it by flirting with her, and aren't straightforward.
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Take her places Movies Bowling Fishing Bright up your confidence and the BOOM Go somewhere romantic and looooove happened
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1 ReplyKill her current boyfriend and wear his skin as a disguise.
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[spoiler]#stickitinherpooper[/spoiler] On a serious note, just live the Yolo lifestyle. Ask her out.
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It sounds like your body is doing you a favor. Stay away from 3DPD. It will only hurt you.
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1 ReplyIt sounds like what you really need to do, is grow a pair of testicles.
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Someone wants the v badly
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"Hey [insert name here], that new [insert movie title here] just got released. I wanted to see if you wanted to go as I don't have anybody that wants to see it with me." Jokingly say that you'd pay for snacks but will need to apply for a bank loan
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Just do what feels right, and don't worry too much. If it's gonna happen it'll happen. Otherwise be okay with moving on.
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Just talk to her you cretin.
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Edited by Progo: 1/6/2014 9:20:03 PMIf you don't try you have a 100% chance of failure. Go for it mate, it's just a date ;) BUT DO IT IN PERSON OR BY PHONE Do not text or message her in any way!
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Alcohol. Makes talking easier...for a bit
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Last part i'm going to add today. By the way, it's been more like 4 years, not 5 She's getting her licenses soon, so my idea was to ask if we can ride together to school. Over time just with that i'll try to get closer and closer to her . Also it's a perfect idea to do things after school. I think it's a solid idea in my head though i just need y'alls inputs
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Stop being a beta
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1 ReplyPunch her in the throat.
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3 RepliesDon't do it. If your relationship with this girl had the potential to be a romantic one, it would've happened by now. You've established yourself as just her friend. Sorry bro.
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either do it or you don't, that simple
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Call her and ask her on a date, or do it in person.
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Once you get past the "I can't do it" part you'll look back and laugh at yourself. Plan doing it over a week or 2 so you have time to get yourself ready for doing it.