Then don't play Trials if you feel that way as no one is forcing you. Trials was created as a hard core pvp mode to challenge the best pvp players in the game. Other than card progression Trials never had skill based matchmaking and should never be as it is against the spirt of the game mode. Bungie has already made changes to help players play Trials and get rewards but they will only hold your hand so far. To get to the Lighthouse you have to prove you are worthy by defeating all opposition no matter what skill level they are. Rise to the challenge or stay away from Trials. As a wise man once said "if you can not take the heat stay away from the fire".