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Edited by Tiny Førklift: 1/20/2016 8:08:44 PM
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Did u have a crappy childhood?

So mine goes like this: I got born (obviuosly). So from when i were not even a year old to 3 my parents moved alot, but to the end, we moved to a really nice place called Milde here in Bergen, Norway. During this time my parents was fighting alot. ALOT. So they never stopped fighting, and that continues to this day. When i was 4, we mowed to Spain due to a organisasjon called "Barnevernet" and that directly translates to"childrenprotectors", and we were fleeing from them, which i didnt know until a year ago. In Spain it only got worse... It got to the point where i would want to scream to my parents: I HATE BOTH OF U! And i was criyng every single night for years, i were terrified, not for me, but i thought they were going to kill eachother. So we moved back to milde after living in spain for two years, and guess what?! It wasnt getting any better... So "barnevernet" finally took action, and separeted me from my parents, which by that time my father literally kidnapped me many times, and divorced from my mother. So i moved to my aunt livin just 200 meters away. And i were so upset because i practicly lost my parents, so for 2 whole years i cried about every night, i moved to my aunt when i was 7, im 15 now. When i was 11 i got to see my father every second week, so we went to buy some pizza, and that visit was the last time i saw him. In those 4 years ho moved to spain for awhile, then moved to thailand and got married, and i now have a 2 year old sister which i cant meet before im 18. Worst thing is, this is the short version of my life. Edit: hey we are trending! Nice! Edit2: i know this is a bit late, but if u wonder; no im not trying to be negative/complaining. I just simply share my lifestory
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  • Yeah my dad only had two ferraris instead of three

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    • Bet you I beat all of you, except maybe the kid who molested by his dad, that's probably as bad as it gets. Tortured for a decade would be better then that.... Except not disclosing anything because the internet likes to come back and haunt me.

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    • Edited by Asharru: 1/4/2016 3:44:31 PM
      Well, my stepdad started to use me as his "plaything" when I was 7 which lasted till I was 13....

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      • Boo hoo you're all alive aren't you. Stop being a negatron and be a optimist prim

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      • Actually mine is quite good. Got picked on from 5th to 7th grade but now I'm one of the most popular kids and no one even dares to provoke me cause I am about half a feet taller than 90% of my class and the one guy who was larger than me and tried to knock me out? Well he couldn't sleep on his right side for days. So no social problems. My grades are meh. I have arguments with my dad nearly every day but no real arguments just about school/work and stuff. So no complaints there either. And respect that you were able to endure that over all these years!

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      • Everyone stand back. I think it's trying to speak. But wait, no understands you. Poor grammar and spelling. [spoiler]intentional bad grammar. [/spoiler]

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        • [quote]I got born[/quote] What have I told you about getting born? Kids these days.

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          • Once I got a pebble stuck in my shoe and was never able to get it out.

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            • Look dude, I'm sorry you had to go through that I'm sure it was tough and all I can say is think logically and move forward. My life: When I was younger I was the jealous but quiet type who ALWAYS got what he wanted and I was semi spoilt (I got what I wanted on special occasions eg Christmas birthdays but not every normal days) and I lived a comfortable life with my mother, sister and step dad (who I love so much.) then it took a turn for the worst. When I was about 10-12 my sister got cancer and this hit me hard and I started playing up and failing in school. I was always smart and adaptable but as time went on things got worst and I stopped caring about myself, more about my sister. I think it was because I started to grow up and realize how bad things could get. Well anyway my sister was in and out of hospital so I would spend up to 6 months out of school but my step dad made sure I still lived my life to the fullest (he made me live, laugh and enjoy my tiny existence.) after a while my sister got better but my mum and step dad broke up which basically broke me. I was depressed to the point of my personality changing. I turned into a sly, deceiving character and didn't care about my education or people. I would smoke and drink alcohol (lol) and now that I think about it all I wanted was attention and love because i had lost it all. Now I basically got my life, friends and personality back. My education is getting better and better, I've started to read manga and watch YouTube to take away time and now my dream job is to be a psychologist. That's my life so far I guess. And I know it isn't the worst scenario, but these things shaped who I am today.

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            • Once my mom cut my jam sandwiches into SQUARES instead of TRIANGLES like I asked for. After that I ran away from home and started a triangle based cult

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              • Edited by bhsnipes: 1/4/2016 5:25:28 PM
                Got picked on all through my entire 2nd-12th grade, I could do nothing about it without being suspended. My 2 scoliosis surgeries, also made fun of for it. Also, my father when I was in grade school treated me like shit. He always yelled for stupid reasons, for example, if he asked us to do something and we didn't know how, he would call me stupid. He has a massive ego, thinks he knows everything. He never helped with homework. He always said "I'm busy", he was watching TV or working on nonwork related things. The classes I needed help in was homework oriented so I got a C in the class because of it. I literally had to learn Chemistry and Physics by myself. I wasn't able to get a tutor. I had to study and work hours a night to just get a C. I've been back stabbed many times, even by my close friends who I've known years. The outcome of my childhood, I can't trust anyone and I'm slightly apathetic. My grades were slightly above par, the classes I needed help in are ones he knows. In short, I had a bad childhood.

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              • All I can say is I'm sorry but on the bright side it can't get any worst than that. Once you become independent you can do whatever you want.

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                • I have a friend who was in and out of care as well as being violently abused, drugged up and used a mule by her parents. She's cool now, though. I'm sure kids in Gaza had it worse.

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                • Edited by tjustie: 1/4/2016 6:52:40 AM
                  No. Despite the problems I have with certain things, I live a pretty comfortable life, generally speaking.

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                  • My dad died on Father's Day when I was three. I don't remember much about him, and I don't know what it's like to have a father so I guess it hasn't really affected me.

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                    • Yea I can say that OP life has really took tides and turns and I can't say I know how he feels. But I did live a relevant type of lifestyle similar to a dysfunction family. I'm only 18 but had a real rough childhood, very depressing almost a suicidal trip. But I lived through it and thank that I went through that process only to be great full for everything I have now.

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                      • Edited by Ox-_Azza-_xO: 1/4/2016 8:26:03 AM
                        Shhh [spoiler]get over it you're only 15...live billy LIVE!!!!![/spoiler]

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                        • Nope

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                        • A childhood without games is the best childhood.

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                        • Nah

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                        • Edited by Esko: 1/4/2016 12:11:49 PM
                          My father cheated on his wife with my mother and then left her before i was born. He has 2 other sons and a wife. I have never met any of them. My little sister was stillborn and my mother was depressed for years. We were moving constantly for years so i never made any lasting friends. My older sister took months of insecurity to come out of the closet and i never see my older brother. All my current friends treat me like shit compared to their older friends. My mother is finally married again and im not sure she is happy. Everyone hates my stepdad because hes a serious alcoholic. I think my mother just doesnt want to die alone. Also all my siblings are only half relations. And my grandfather died when i was little. Im 17 now and i just graduated high school ( turned 17 2 days after graduation lol ) and i dont know what im going to do with my life. Beat that.

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                          • I don't think I did and as bad as you had it try to remember it could always have been worse its always given me solace.

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                            • Your childhood sounds like a backstory for a villan...

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                              • No. It was pretty good. I was just stupid.

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                                • I hated my childhood while I was living it, but looking back it was actually great. We moved around quite a bit (army brat), and at the time that pissed me off. But I got to live in many different environments (4 states, 3 countries), and made a lot of long lasting friendships with people from different cultures.

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                                • My childhood was ruined when my dad said my helmet looked like a lampshade and everyone laughed. [spoiler];-;[/spoiler]

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