When you finally get to the point that you can do the raid, don't do the totems that way. Trust me, the actual way is so much easier and less frustrating. As a side note, if you're new to destiny you should try to find a clan to be a part of, but it needs to be a tightly knit clan that stays in touch or it'll hardly do you any good. Friends make destiny go 'round you'll find. Everything is more fun with people you like playing with.