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Edited by Froggie:
1/11/2016 8:56:16 PM
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My gf has had sex with 20 different guys
Found out that bit of info yesterday. Can't help but feel a little weird about it. I mean my views on sex have changed drastically since I've gotten older but -blam!-. If I start to dwell on it it really makes me feel like shit for some reason. How do you cope with the thought of your partner having had so many sexual partners?
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Meh my dad has had so much more
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82 RepliesOutdo her. Have sex with 21 guys.
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1 ReplyWith a name like Jolly Magooga, I really don't see why she had sex with you in the first place.
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As long as she is disease free and that number dosent climb while your together dont put too much thought into it. Besides the innocent ones are lousy in bed. Do u really want a girl that dosent know whats up when u take her for a mustache ride? Let the prudes enjoy only doing missionary while you give her an "angry dragon".
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Is her name Amber ?
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Personally it's a bit bothersome if I were to be told that by my partner. I mean, you honestly don't know if her emotions are true, or if she just wants sex. Maybe another serious boyfriend would've made sense but I think 20 is too much.
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72 Replies[quote]How do you cope with the thought of your partner having had so many sexual partners? [/quote]1) She told you about it, which is great. If she told you then she cares enough about you to be upfront. 2) In general, more experience = better sex. So YAY! 3) There's nothing she can do about it. She can't change what happened in the past even if she wanted to. 4) Who she had sex with in the past has nothing to do with you because she didn't know you then. 5) Your past makes you who you are. If she hadn't had those partners and experiences, would she be the same person? All of her past experiences made her who she is today (that person you love). 6) It's okay to acknowledge your jealousy or insecurity, but recognize that it's YOUR issue. It's your responsibility to deal with it; not hers. 7) She's with you now for a reason. What makes for good sex is your partner really knowing and understanding you. Does the past really matter if you guys are together and having great sex now? I hope some of that helps.
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think of it as her trying to find the best one. so long as she doesnt say itherwise and doesnt leave then assume your the best. the ego boost should help you cope until you can deal with it. long term i think you should talk with her about it and try to reslove it. hope it goes away tho
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As long as it was over a period of time then let it go. At least you get to enjoy without teaching. She has rinsed out those other twenty guys right?
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Dj Khaled comes out of no where [spoiler]ANOTHER ONE[/spoiler]
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4 RepliesAnother other partners* Hate them and find someone new! I could never get over something like that though.
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Destiny is love destiny is life
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It's double the number she tells you dude.
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2 RepliesThere isn't much aid we can give you that she hasn't already
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Oops.. Make that 21*
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Just put a helmet on that soldier before you send it to war.
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20 isn't a lot. When i was 21 i dated a girl who confessed to losing the number when she got to 60. She was 20...that's a lot. Man up. If she's with you is because you make her happy. Or just get overly concerned with the 10 miles of shaft she's had and possibly ruin a great thing.
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She's (a) probably has experience in the matter but (b) maybe I'd require a basic medical, you never know if one of those 20 guys was a carrier of something specific (i.e. HPV)
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I you keep focusing on the past you won't be able to have a good future
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I mean I don't really see too much of a problem here as long as it wasn't while she was with you. As long as she doesn't have STD's obviously otherwise it's kinda whatever tbh. Yeah it'd make me feel a little weird but idk if it'd make me feel like shit.
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1 ReplyEdited by ClusiveC: 1/10/2016 12:21:07 AMThe Frogster made some good points down below, but I think you have to consider the future as well. I don't know how old she is, but she's had 20 different partners. She's probably told all of them about her past experiences. I don't want to add fuel to the fire, but I want to be realistic: I think we can all agree that there is an increased chance of her.... I don't want to say 'dumping', but ... She's had 20 different guys man... You're number 21. She's... Loose. I'm trying to figure out how to word this right. I mean, she is who she is, but that's a lot of men to be with. That's 20. List the names of 20 different guys that you know, and you'll see it in perspective. I'm going to put it like this - if you're truly something special to her, then you don't have anything to worry. about. If you feel as if the relationship is starting to get brittle, then please make sure that she knows who loves her.
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12 RepliesWhat's the difference between having sex with 20 people, or one person 20 times? Numbers mean nothing.
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That's bad move on
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THESE HOES AINT LOYAL
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Sucks bro. Just gotta learn to deal with it. /experience
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1 ReplyIn a row?!?
