Recently met a really cool group of people and had a great night playing Destiny with them, but right after they saw a photo of me they stopped sending the invites and responding to my messages. I guess I should've known when one of them said "Awww, nig-tits" when he died in Crucible.
Racists are the lowest. I can't imagine The Traveler would choose any racist to defend mankind.
EDIT: What an interesting thread this has been! It's very polarized. First you have the good folks offering their sympathies, then you have the good folks sending me private messages offering sympathies and group/clan invites. I'm so grateful for them.
Then you have the people who say I'm a liar. Why? Because, they ask, "Why would you randomly send your photo to people you just met? You're a liar."
This outlook strikes me as odd because...
1) My original post doesn't say I randomly sent them a photo. These people assume this was the case. Why do they assume this was the case? Because they want to use it as ammunition to call me a liar.
2) My original post says the group stopped inviting me after they saw a picture of me. Period. I didn't say how or why they saw the picture, only that they saw it.
3) The truth is, they saw the picture of me because after a good 5 hours of intense and hilarious gaming, they figured we should all keep in touch. We exchanged kik usernames and I joined their Facebook group for their clan. And guess what? These social networking apps involve pictures.
For those asking how they didn't know I was black by listening to me, I truly feel bad for you. Because one's skin color does not predispose them to a certain vernacular or method of speech. Period. I speak English. Boring old English. It's a language free for anyone to speak; it is not reserved for white people, so saying someone "sounds white" is catastrophically ignorant. And stupid.
Anyway, this has been educational. The short of it is this: there are two sides. You have the enlightened folk who have no hatred in their hearts. Then you have the hateful folks who will do or say or claim anything to support their hatred. Here in this thread their primary ammunition is to try to discredit my very simple story and brand me a liar.
I wish it was a lie, but it's not.
Communities need to be made aware when hate slinks around in the dark, masquerading as light. This thread has certainly helped bring them out of hiding, and for that, true Guardians should be thankful. We should know who the agents of Darkness are among us.
I /salute the good folks among you. My bow and hunter abilities are forever yours.
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#Destiny
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Edited by KawiFohFiddy: 10/4/2015 11:42:49 PMA clan I was raiding with quit sending me invites when they found out I'm Hispanic. I feel you bro.
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Noice?
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Greetings fellow human being :) Your existence is greatly appreciated here on our planet Earth. It's always nice to meet well mannered, intelligent individuals such as yourself. On behalf of other like minded people, have a great day!
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7 RepliesWhats thier clan name? And what are thier gamertags? There is a really good way too deal with this without busting heads
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Racism is horrible.
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1 ReplyAlways found it hilarious and ironic that they luv gaming with you until they find out ur black. then, all of a sudden they can't be ur friend anymore an have amnesia about all the hours you jus spent cracking jokes and having a good time. Racism is literally a mental disorder, IMO.
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No one ever double checks the photo before putting it up anymore... could have ya dick out son
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They seen one too many cuckold porns.....the fear is real
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Op if youre on PS4 send me a friend invite at Blindseraph
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Cause them dudes is all a buncha baby diks
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I'm sorry to hear that people are being assholes. Racism doesn't belong in this world
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HOLY SHIT YOU'RE BLACK! [spoiler] I couldn't care less, more than welcome to join my fireteam.....[/spoiler]
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8 RepliesEdited by U5334926: 10/4/2015 11:06:28 PMNot to be racist, but black people tend to have a deeper tone. That's the way it is, idk y, nor do I really care. It's just something I've noticed http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/16243483/
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-blam!- em'.
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Ya, I get the same thing. I feel ya bro
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I personally think that doesn't make any sense and is unfair, but I'd think of it this way- if they felt the need to do that they probably aren't the kind of people you want to play with anyway. They may have seemed like solid guys at first, but they probably would have shown their true colors over time.
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1 ReplyEdited by Orion027: 10/4/2015 10:23:46 PMThis sounded like an episode of Snap Judgement. Well written. Sorry for your troubles. This kind of thing happens to me from time to time. Whenever I acquire a new friend online and they find out my wife is mixed they say "Really? She doesn't sound black." Or if IRL someone meets her and later finds out she's mixed it always "Really? She doesn't look black." It shouldn't matter should it. It's like they don't want to accept the fact that she's mixed.
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Edited by Sixclicks: 10/4/2015 10:37:05 PMThere is definitely such a thing as African American vernacular that a large number of, predominantly urban, Blacks speak in, and it can be used to an extent to guess one's ethnicity and/or upbringing. That said, not all Blacks speak in that manner, and assuming that all do is certainly racist. Lastly, to add to that, I personally don't car how you speak whether it's the stereotypical "white" or stereotypical "black" as long as you're respectful and helping to work towards the common goal of the fireteam.
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Anyone who judges you because of your skin color isn't worth your time anyway. That shit is ridiculous.
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That's a shame, man. Just try to brush off the bs. There are other cool groups out there to meet up with, hopefully not internally corrupt.
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That sucks that there is racism in this game if on ps4 i can play with you
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So how did they get a picture of you? Facebook stalking? I think you got the better end of the deal if that's the case
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If somebody is going to judge you on the colour of your skin then they aren't worthy of any space in your life,even if it is only online. I know it sounds cringey but the content of your character is what matters and not the colour of your skin. I hope you find a new bunch of people who are cool with you and who you have fun with!
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You sound white
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Edited by seasoned_claw3: 10/4/2015 10:00:16 PMIf you're on Xbox one, send me a message and we can raid or something sometime :) racism is awful and I hate it. ( my gt is Isaac j 67)
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2 RepliesEdited by Vindicator5599: 10/4/2015 7:30:47 PMYou sound educated by the way of your speech so I'm assuming that you are a nice guy therefore, I would pick you in my Fireteam any day. You're grammar, punctuation, and spelling are on point. I salute you.