Been a few days of skimming through the forums and seen a lot of dames are "attention whores" and why do they have an Xbox in the kitchen, and the Dames are an all lesbian clan.
But why are they under such scrutiny? And why aren't dads of destiny? They are both an all same sex clan. Why the hate towards women?
If you would do some research, you would find that EVERY woman at some point in her life has been harassed (made to feel uncomfortable) sexually, and most women multiple times. The manner of the harassment can vary from a text message (or forum post) to unwanted contact.
This behavior on the forums should not be tolerated and I would like to see some repercussions.
As a Male gamer I am appalled at these comments I have seen and would like to see a permanent ban of bungie accounts for all members that have harassed the dames of destiny.
Sign below.
Edit 1: If you are making the arguement that men are harassed too, you're ignorant. Yes men are sexually harassed. Not 100% of them. 100% of women will be sexually harassed in their lifetime. Sometimes on a daily (weekly for agreements sake) if they are attractive.
Edit 2: I'm sure the dames of destiny are fully capable of standing up for themselves. But in a 90% male community who would want to receive the awful bantering.
If I say your harassing them and it's wrong. The most I get is "this guy is a stupid woman supporter." At the end of the day that's not even slander, it's fact. A woman would get name called, told to get back in the kitchen, and solicited for sex.
Edit 3: [url=http://www.stopstreetharassment.org/resources/statistics/sshstudies/]link[/url]
Note: this says over 99% I simply rounded up after reading, and listen to some experts in the field of gender equality
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People should just stop bringing this up, it's over with already. Just let it die. I'm a woman and I could care less anymore because guess what? At the end of the day, the damn kids who were typing all those hateful/ridiculous threats didn't actually do a damn thing to any one of those girls. If any male said that to me in person, then you better bet your ass I will drop kick him back into his monthers womb so fast he wouldn't even know what hit him. Let these morons feel strong and superior behind their desktops and cell phones. They know they're nothing without 'em. We all know. The minute any of these kids wanna say that to my face, let me know. No one? Didn't think so. So let's just drop it and move on with the day, yes?
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I've kept out of this topic because I know that the Dames don't need defending. Women are just as capable, either in playing video games or being total idiots. Both are not exclusive to the male gender. Of course, in an ideal world a group such as the Dames shouldn't [i]need[/i] to exist. But sexism is as old as religion, and certain attitudes can't be changed overnight, if at all. Some people will always be sexist, or misogynistic, either through experience or attitude or upbringing. Fact of life, and a sad one. Sometimes I think that the reason that so many guys dislike female gamers is that they see gaming as "their" hobby and feel threatened. Many of these are young, and I suspect not even sure how to even speak to them. (That was me when I was a teenager). So all they can do is talk down to them, because they want to look "cool" in front of their male peers. A shame, as they might miss out on a truly enlightening experience. As for me, I'm no white knight - just a gamer who knows men and women can both be as clever, and as stupid, as each other. And both be just as capable of cooking a stew or taking down Crota. As I said, a group such as the Dames shouldn't need to exist. But it does. Maybe we should ask ourselves why. But they don't need defending, as I'm sure they can more than look after themselves - white knights not required!
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72 RepliesEdited by raj: 8/2/2015 5:56:44 PMChicks have to deal with the fear of -blam!- literally every day, can any guy honestly say that who isn't in prison? Just leave them alone and let them be comfotable. These plebs will never understand, just a pack of bitter virgins mad they aren't in the club. Edit: The R word.
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1 Reply99.9% Of all statistics are made up on the spot.
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"100% of women will be sexually harrassed" ??????????????? did you pull this statistic out of your ass
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Get the -blam!- off your pony. People are going too be vile no matter how much you try to silence them. You are ignorant.
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Stop arse licking and play the game!
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Edited by Tinker (Chloe): 8/5/2015 7:33:03 AMRight, so the bread is stale. Guess that means I get to write this sooner. [i]Sarcastic yey[/i] Can I start by pointing out about the statistics used. They seem to show an abnormal amount of indecent behaviour that is well above normal statistics. Well I am not stating that this means that the results are rigged, I am stating that this could be more of a local effect then anything else. One of the problems with this study is that it is unreliable, we are not told anything about those who are questioned, by which method they was formally interviewed and their relativity with the general poulation. That means that sociologically this study is already on it's weak legs. Also we are not even told really which country it was taken in which stops us from knowing which culture it is studying. The one that picked my atention the most will have to be the [b]37% has had a stranger masturbate in front of them[/b]. That is just the signs if a unhealthy population in that area. Seriously, that is not just society. Any [b]normal, healthy[/b] person does not think "oh aye, she's a looker. Lets get my plonker out and show her how handy I am." Seriously, if you are thinking like that then I recommend visiting saint cadoc's or which ever is your local mental treatment facility. Honestly, it is not normal. Next up, and this is me running off memory but you mentioned about Dad's of Destiny. Using it as justification for there being Dames of Destiny. I actually find this quite nonsensical. While they are an all male clan last time I checked(hence dads), it is no more sexist then a mother's forum board that you keep seeing posted online these days. I have a respect for Dads, not because I am a father because that will mean I have broken the age of consent law and I would be throttled by my parents for doing so(this is not to be taken literally) but because the fact is that being a father is quite stressful and means that your schedule is very rigid while not allowing much free time. I have four brothers and sisters and I am close to ripping my hair out, I can imagine how time consuming it would be to have to look after them. Next up, your first edit. The one about "Don't try to say that males have problems as well", some nonsense like that. I want to heavily disagree with that point, because there is a lot of sexism faced by males as well. They suffer more at school, they are subject to more physical violence due to societies expectations that are forced upon them at a young age. Mostly based around outdated religious qualms such as those found by christianity. I am not saying that men have it worse and it is hard to state which is actually worse because we are comparing two different spectrums conpletely here. Now, my final point and this is something I actually comment you on. Least you are not going around being a hypocrite about this. You are being firm in what you believe agaisnt the abuse that people are throwing at you and that is fine mate. That is actually pretty great that you manage to do so. This post I just made, my two cents on the matter from a sociological viewpoint. Edit: do not ever mess up your statistics again. You do not round up 99 to 100 you idiot. If you are trying to present sonething then do not go around and lie about statistics no matter if it is only one percent. You round up decimals usually for percentage, not the entire blood numbers just because 100 sounds larger. Edit 2: Just asked the closest female who happened to be my stepmother "have you ever been sexually harrased?" The answer was a simple "no". There we go, definitely not 100%
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1 ReplyBy looking at these comments I feel embarrassed to be a part of this community
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The troll's replies to this thread is soul-destroying. All defending their right to be complete cünts. No doubt all are subscribed to forum twat monthly by the sounds of it. https://pbs.twimg.com/media/CKhcgmCWIAAldbM.png:large
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2 RepliesOh and as a straight Christian male. This thread offends me. Petition to bam this thread sign here
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1 ReplyLiberal spotted
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It is a sad day when I find a post like this and I am too half asleep to reply. It is too damn early for this for me.........[i]goes off to make some toast while leaving ipad on this page to go back to.[/i]
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Edited by Orobas Rex: 8/5/2015 6:46:42 AMFirst they can have a cabinet TV Second I wish I could be in their group gets old always playing with dude on games like 96% time console nothing but dudes it be nice for some variation
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6 RepliesOh my god who the hell cares! Shut up so many people are talking about this shit! It's the Internet! For -blam!-s sake is bungie.net! The only place worse is 4chan! If they -blam!-ing cared THEY would be the ones freaking out about it not every white knight who wants to get laid!
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1 ReplyThis thread will not get you laid brother. They're smarter than that.
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1 ReplyYou know this won't help you get laid right?
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In society 80% of what u say is true, but from first hand experience just check out (some not all) dames of destiny members and their interactions on this very forum . I've seen what u speak of from both sides of this first hand and I gotta say it works both ways . When dads of destiny got a mention they coped it too . So when I don't disagree with u I also don't agree with u at the same time. Try to do some more research before posting a one sided propaganda campaign to put them on a pedestal. Have fun , peace out.
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Dames?
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No one EVER should be victim to any form of scrutiny. It's a shame there are people on this Earth that take amusement from subjecting people in such a manner.
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Dude get over yourself...
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1 ReplyShut up, fag.
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6 RepliesEdited by OneWolfPT: 8/4/2015 3:30:57 AM"You're Ignorant" "100% of woman are sexually harassed..." World class fememememememememnism here I tell ya what
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1 ReplyThe dames are just crying becouse they got insulted. Grow up its the Internet it means nothing
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We're still on this, it isn't even a Destiny issue, yet had more attention than the game.
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