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10/21/2018 11:09:10 PM
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I, uh, I might need some help...
So, I’m at an all-time low at life right now. As you can see, I’m clearly not myself, and I’ve taken notice too. For the sake of not wasting your time, I won’t tell you what’s goin on irl atm but it involves a shit ton of nostalgia and pet trouble.
I try and refrain from making emotional posts and shit like this because I deem it unnecessary for me but.... as much as I try to resist it, here I am, typing it out.
I apologize if this seems like an attention-seeking post, but I need to get this out there. Has anyone noticed me behaving rather differently? If so, how differently?
I need all the feedback I can get.
Thanks all.
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#Offtopic
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2 RepliesI lost 2 dogs...
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5 RepliesLol homies cat got hit by a bus
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1 ReplyI lost my best friend last month. A dog named Max. I guess the time comes for everyone though... Stay strong, Cell
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2 RepliesSorry to hear that Cell. Just think about how happy you’ll be once the issue is resolved.
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1 ReplyI hope you feel better soon! You are the reason that I joined the forums and it would be a shame to see you go.
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Cell, I think I speak for most of not all of offtopic when I say “we got your back”
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2 RepliesI’ve noticed a small change, but your not acting ‘too out of the ordinary’ [spoiler]quotations because we’re all weird here[/spoiler] hope u feel better soon!! [spoiler]also please don’t leave the forums, I enjoy seeing your posts, but if u must I understand[/spoiler]
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3 RepliesDon’t worry. We can be depressed together! [i]makes room for you in noose[/i]
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It’s hard to get over a past pet, but it’s possible. Just remember that
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i havent really been active long enough to know if there has been a change in your behaviour, but as a friend (im just saying that, i guess. because i consider you a friend but whatever) i hope you dont mind if i have this input. dont hide away whats wrong. if you have a problem, talk about it. it could be what’s causing your behaviour to change. you can fix your problem, fix yourself, everything will be okay. if it seems like things are going downhill for you, speak to someone. it can be a post, it can be a friend, it could be a counselor. dont feel afraid to speak up, dont isolate yourself from the problem. if its a person (as a possibility?) thats making you feel changed, or wanting you to change for them, or even saying things/bullying you that makes you feel like you have to change then dont listen to them. however you behave, youre an amazing person, and you always will be. act however you want to, as long as you are comfortable and happy. tbh i’m mostly always free if you ever need to vent, i get if you dont need to, dont want to, or maybe just dont want to tell your problems to a stranger. but theres always someone there for you, no matter who it is. i hope things get better for you.
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3 RepliesNot knowing what is bothering you makes it difficult to try and help (not suggesting you make it open either), but it could be that you are just getting older where more and more things will never be as they were.
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2 RepliesI'll be honest mate, if we don't know what's going on IRL, wd can't really help you. Sorry.
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Try a full system reboot, if that doesn't work roll back your software to a previous state with a copy saved to an external hard drive [spoiler]jokes aside, I don't think i noticed anything different, hopefully you'll get through whatever you're dealing with soon though [/spoiler]
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1 ReplyDo drugs
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4 RepliesAs long as you're considerably mentally stable, and don't have any intentions of doing anything brash, I think that you will be fine. Everybody goes through hard times, but you have to have darkness to have light. You can't have laughter without sadness, and so forth. If you need to vent, or just need someone to talk to, my private messages are always open.
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You all good chief
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We all love you cell! I will put you in my prayers
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1 ReplyEdited by Darth Turtle: 10/22/2018 9:43:26 AMMate, Im sure the cats will be fine. As for the nostalgia...You need to recenter your life. Focus more on the present because the past is done and gone.
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You'er not alone down here in the mire that is life. All we can do is trudge on through and help each other. I've got a little something for you... *rummaging around in the back* *grunts* ...oof, it's a tad bigger than I thought... *ground begins to shake* ...here we are... *ground cracks and trembles as an impossibly large object comes flying out* I present to you Galactus' worldship, [b]TAA II[/b]. All yours! *hands over the keys*
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I've typically been one for tough love, so I say beating yourself up over something which will pass doesn't have much of a point. Try not to keep making yourself sadder over it.
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You seem fine to me. 👍
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2 RepliesThese forms are not the best place to get help, download the app called 7 Cups. There you’ll find free help from trained professionals that you’ll be able to talk to on one personally or anonymously 24/7. You can also meet with licensed therapists there The app has step-by-step, day by day journey and plan for you to follow.
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1 ReplyHave you tried rebooting?
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We all have these tough times. We all have always liked you, but sometimes you need to let change happen. We will always like you as long as you like yourself
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Edited by Girraffalope: 10/22/2018 5:09:33 AMCell you can't always try to be perfect. Everyone has flaws and everyone goes through this in life. You can't let it get you down. No one expects you to always be your best, and no one is gonna be upset at you for letting out emotions or acting differently. You've always been one of my favorite users on Offtopic and there's no way I'd ever change my perspective of you based on you taking time for yourself or making a post you wouldn't normally make. Everyone needs to vent. Do whatever you think you have to
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Alexio Call Cell 3 Uh hello cell you there You seem different
