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Modifié par Cayde : 5/29/2017 5:35:42 PM
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I Need Advice

I had a conversation in text yesterday. It was between myself and a girl that I like from my AP Calculus class; the school year ended for my school about three days ago as of the conversation (that would make it four days ago as of this post). Here it is: Me: "Hey [So-and-so], how's it been?" Girl: "I'm okay. How are you?" Me: "I'm kind of bored right now, but I'm fine. What have you been up to?" Girl: "Just shopping with my cousins. Nothing much." Me: "Oh. (^_^;) Do you want me to stop bothering you?" Girl: "It's really up to you, I don't care." Me: "I'm just kind of bored right now, but I don't want to annoy you in the middle of something." So far, she still hasn't responded, and I got her number on the last day of school. What should I do? Edit: People have been asking for a bit of background. I've known her for most of the school year. She's Asian and I'm not, to start it off. Also, she's kind of introverted and keeps to herself when around people (like say, in a classroom); she rarely approaches someone to start a conversation (unless it's help on an assignment), and she once told me that she was "the socially stupidest person she knew"(I could contest that unfortunately, lol). When she does stuff with other people aside from her family and relatives, she does those stuff with people she knew closely for a long time or people she feels really comfortable around. She is also really intelligent and kind, and sometimes throws around a bit of dark humor; she's beautiful inside and out. However, she also has bipolar disorder (I don't know to what degree), so it's only harder to tell what she could be feeling or thinking; she herself admitted that sometimes she doesn't know how she's feeling. Additionally, she's been in two relationships before, both of which ended badly; off of what I've heard and seen, she hasn't been treated very well. As such, I don't really know what approach I should take with this, as I don't want to startle her or be too slow about it.
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  • She probably means what she said. She doesn't care. If you text her, she may text you back, if you don't, she doesn't care. I'm going to be honest with you. People sometimes have these ridiculously stupid thoughts that there are these unspoken rules of engagement between men and women. I'll clarify with something quick and easy to understand. It's [b]incredibly [/b] [i]easy[/i] to text someone back. It takes less than a minute. If someone is excited to talk to you, is genuinely interested in getting to know you, that person [b]will[/b] text you back. If the person is busy, it's understandable to not get a text right away, but how many hours are there in a day? Seriously? It takes [b]less than 1 minute [/b]. So if someone is passive, well... there's not much else to say. It doesn't matter how introverted someone is, [b]especially [/b] if we're talking about texting. So my advice is to pursue if you have interest. Sometimes a man or woman may not have immediate interest in someone. It's understandable, and you may want to know someone better but situational wise never have an organic opportunity to talk. Sometimes you hit it off, sparks fly, and you text or talk over the phone with that person for hours. Quite the magical feeling. Bottom line though... it's not that hard to text someone back.

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    • i need more info to specify an approach per my personality but, whatever u do, i would imagine ur time is limited with a short expiration..this may call for drastic measures.

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      • RIP

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      • Send her all of your memes

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      • Well in my experience, while contrary to popular belief, pissing on females to assert dominance does not help

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      • Try toast/envelope

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        • Modifié par FoodMonger52 : 5/28/2017 11:29:18 PM
          I wouldn't worry about it. She is still considering how to approach this whole deal you guys have going on. I wouldn't blow up her phone too much, because then you will annoy her. It's possible she was just paying attention to those she was with. Don't make yourself seem completely disinterested either. It's a precarious balance you need to have. I suggest seeing about getting together during group activities over the summer. Maybe pizza and a movie with some mutual friends. This will make her feel more comfortable and relaxed. As opposed to feeling like being put on the spot. The awkwardness might ease up a bit too. edit: Hope this helps a bit at least.

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