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1/12/2016 3:37:04 PM
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it's been said before, but once again "DON'T SEND AN INVITE, WITHOUT EXPLAINING"
3 times in a row i got an invite from some random tower person, and 3 times my "what do you need me for" were ignored >.<
If you can't be bothered to explain what activity you need help for, don't be surprised that you're forever ignored.
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#Destiny
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I tell this to people in my friends list much less randoms not on it. Always when you send me an invite there is a box in the invite put hard raid oryx at totems or VoG hard at templar so I know what character I should grab for myself and what kind of loadout to at least start with. Besides I might have already done all of the above but be in a party with a person who has not and send them your way (I have done this multiple times)
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This happened to Monday in the tower. Level 3 player sent me an invite with no explanation. I am not against helping anyone, but tell me what you want.
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2 commentairesAgreed. I will help anyone that I can... but when they send an invite and I respond with "what we doing?" and they send another with no indication of what they want to do. I refuse to join. Tell us what you want to do, and the majority of us will either help you or let you know why we can't at that moment. Example. A couple weeks ago i got an invite from a guy in the tower, asked what he needed help with, he explained some quest mission. I joined him, helped him do it. Now almost every night we run a few missions working on getting him better gear. Afetr every mission, strike or whatever we do, he asks if there is anything I need I help with, I don't, but I appreciate the fact that he asks, so I will take him into heroic strikes hoping he gets better gear. There are literally 1000's of people that are willing to help others, you guys just have to let us know what you want help with.
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so me and my fireteam are on mars farming cabal majors when i start getting these invites from someone in the area. i messaged him to message me since i was in a fireteam already. 71 invites later, i left mars. that is the actual number, no exaggeration.
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18 commentairesOf all the things to be salty about, you chose this?
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See my status message ... I get a lot of invites from names I vaguely recognize. I ignore them unless they message me.
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I also hate when you are in the middle of an activity, try and join and the spot in the raid is filled cuz they sent out 90 invites. Game invites should say "raid"or "crucible" , "nightfall" and have there own cool down time.
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I fell asleep in the Tower last night woke up to 15 invites from the same guy :-\
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Hate blind invites, is it really so hard to send a msg or party invite to ask for help?
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This is I prrfer to talk to u than to simply send Hm kf fresh? Idk where all these helpful ppl r but I dont meet shit unless I leave my public spot open
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I had this guy add me and he was pretty nice or so I thought. He asked me to help him with nf but I didnt get the message until like 5 mins later as I had my notices turned off for when I watch movies etc..told him sorry my notices were off so I said yes sure, just in middle of a strike. Told him after I'm done I'll let him know. A few mins. I finish my strike and then go to check on him and he deleted me. All because I wouldn't jump in right away. It's not just random unexplained invites but also the ones who have no patience when you are in the middle of something.
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i have nearly always tried to put 1: light level 2: my class 3: what Activity 4: if im looking for group or looking for missing players but sometimes your just droping from orbit and recieve a invite to party and/or game invite or message just saying they want help and it does get anoying.
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I ignore those unless it's from a friend, then I see what they're doing, and if they're in a chat party, I'll hop in there.
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I couldn't agree more. I get spammed with invites throughout the day but I don't even know what people want. Send a message! I'm not gonna leave my party to join yours just to ask why you invited me
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Yes. At least tell me why you are blowing up my messages
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This has happened to me several times. Now, I'm not a prick for a lack of better words, and I don't mind helping at all. I will send the response back as to what they need help with and most of the time they don't respond back and in one case, a player told me to "just play the game" after I asked what him/her what they needed help with bc I'm not the one asking to play.
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Happens to me all the time!! I agree, be a little specific as to what you want
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2 commentairesBungie could have really made things a little easier by including a short message that players could display next to their name above their heads in the tower or patrol. Seems like such a simple way they could have avoided some of the criticism about lack of matchmaking, making it a little more user-friendly. But they never bothered with things like that, or letting us customise (or at least make better use of) the d-pad controls to shortcut weapon switching or ammo synth, or how about letting us shortcut into various areas of a planet from orbit rather than spawning halfway across an empty map. So many little things they could have implemented to make it all feel less like we had to work a job just to be able to get into the fun parts of the game. If none of these type of things are given any thought by the time D2 comes around, I'll pass. Lessons need to be learned.
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I ignore every invite unless they've sent a message explaining what they want help with first. But even then I don't help.
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IKR. I would get blank invites and reply with " what activity " or something similar. Only to receive yet another blank invite. *Guardian now ignored*
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1 commentaireGood etiquette should always be followed.
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7 commentairesThe random tower invites are the worse. Just send a quick msgs saying what you need. Had someone sending me a msg asking if i could help him out with a weekly strike. His light was like 7 below the requirements and people left him everytime they saw his light. I replyd with that i was kinda busy at that time since the reason i was in the tower was because my ToM didnt want to transfer over with the app. He reply'd begging me for help since he needed a few to complete that part of the quest and needed the marks so he could buy something to increase his light level. I felt bad for him, so i asked him to wait for like 30 minutes. I would have been done by then and could help him run a few strikes. Completed the raid and forgot about him. Started fresh with the team i was with and completed it too. Thats when i got offline and went to sleep. Next day i got a msg from him. "Sorry to msg you again, but i think you dont want to help me. So sorry for disturbing you." That was when i remembered him and felt bad. So straight up msgd him saying that i forgot and asking when he would be online. He was suprised by it and couple of hours later i did a bunch of strikes and a nightfall with him. Even helped him getting Black Spindle and help him pick what was best to buy with his marks. But the guy started acting weird, almost sad so i asked why. He said that he felt bad because i had a group of friends that he was planning to raid with. He switched to xbox one so he could raid with them instead of randoms. He felt bad because he couldnt repay the favor. Couldnt help but laugh. Explained to him that i didnt mind and like an hour later he left. Still have him on my friendslist and from time to time he asks me questions since his friends advice the wrong things. Cant help the fact tho that his friends dont really sound like friends since apart from the raids, he has to do everything by himself. But apart from that, how that guy did it is how everyone should do it. [i]Send a message saying what you need help with and ask if we can help you. That works way better then a random invite that we will just ignore. [/i]
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2 commentairesway to be a good destiny helper.
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2 commentairesI like how the "Play Destiny!" invite it is not even posed as a question but more of a demand.
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1 commentaireA lot of people are giving away Blacksmith shaders to random people in the Tower. You've probably missed a lot of offers.
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4 commentairesDon't make a thread thinking the one who invited you is going to read this...
