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I'm opposite once you're out of my life I really don't think twice. People from high school if I see them again I avoid them... I HATE small talk and that's all it ever boils down to when they come back into your life.
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True, this is normally the case for myself as well (about when I rarely run into old friends or acquaintances), but sometimes it works out. In those rare cases, I take it as a sign that their role in your life is yet to conclude.
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Yea I guess I just haven't had anyone important in my life that I've lost connection with... I have had shitty friends so it came to the point I'd rather not have any then the drama lol
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Don't blame you there, that's partially why I keep my distance from most people. Some people tend to consider me "uncaring" or "unfriendly" for that, though.
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Yea that's why I am a bitch lol [spoiler]little do they know ;)[/spoiler]
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You seem nice enough around here. I try to be kind as well when I socialize, I just limit how much socializing I actually do. It keeps a comfortable distance between myself and others.
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Yup... IRL I'm deemed a bitch before opening my mouth so with new people (or should say girls) I dont even try lol
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Well, you know, some people don't enjoy hearing things they disagree with, or just look to stir up trouble.
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It's always stir up trouble
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Well, not necessarily. Can never be too sure with people, they're complicated creatures.
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That they def are but in the end they always want something to benefit themselves no matter what it costs
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I like to think that more people aren't like that. Naive on my part, perhaps, but I don't mind that. Hope for the best, expect the worst, right?
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I guess maybe I've been burned to many times to now lol I kinda expect the worst and am surprised by the best ;)
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Precisely! A pessimist is never disappointed, only pleasantly surprised.
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Unfortunately the surprises are few and far between
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Well now if they were too common, they wouldn't really be surprises anymore. Rarity doesn't necessarily make something any more or less special, but it does make it unexpected.
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Sometimes I hate that you expect the simplest form respect or kindness and even then you are left with disappointment and asking why did you even expect that much
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That's partially why I have few expectations for others, or none at all. People are going to be how they're going to be, any personal expectations I might have generally isn't going to affect their behavior.
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I would say we are not people persons ;)
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Yes, no, maybe so. lol
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Lol yes