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4/29/2016 12:30:41 AM
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Girl Tax?
I know the title may be inflammatory to some, so I'll start by saying I love the destiny community and usually have no issues.
Anytime I raid with a team that's over 50% strangers I always wind up getting kicked. Regardless of my K/d, light, dps or general wipe-causing--blam!-ups I'm always the one kicked.
Am I being paranoid? Or am I being penalized for bing a girl?
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3 RepliesThey always ended up booting me because they think I'm a squeaker and my brothers are always like that's my sister. But I end up booted anyways.
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Yeah I agree you probably have a high voice and sound like a little kid and most of is including myself hate playing with little kids. Just let them know your a adult female and you should be just fine.
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There seems to be a solid number of folks that can't finish the raid -- then have a member drop -- then pick up a stag on LFG. If they don't finish the first run or two, blaming the LFG is easy. I know the Need One at Oryx CP or Sisters can be a study in poor team dynamics.
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Don't take it personally, I have seen so many different types of skills and people get kicked in alot of different games.
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Maybe they think ur a lil kid
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They prob think you're a squeaker, just point out that you're female asap and you'll find u get kicked less
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Edited by drake10114: 4/29/2016 1:55:50 PMIf you want a chill raid team, add me. My group doesn't care about gender and we often need 1 extra here and there. edit: I think some people don't know how to treat a lady or are immature and young and feel it's a guy thing to do, to bash the other sex.
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There's a clan that only allows girls and Bungie actually featured it once. Moral of the story? Girls can act sexist too.
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4 RepliesOnly if you were on xbox.
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7 RepliesI can't seem to understand how male gamers can act like this towards girl gamers. A real man would show a woman more respect than anything. I sincerely apologize for the little twits who think it's okay to treat you any differently.
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My wife and I both have ps4 and both play and she never has any problems so I don't know what to tell you lol
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Uhm? You probably aren't and just get stuck with general assholes, if you're on ps4 and need people for raids feel free to hit me up.
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Just be the host
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Easiest way to get a group without too many problems is to join a clan. There are a few "no boys allowed" clans out there you can join if you just want to eliminate gender as a possibility for why you are being kicked.
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Every random party I go into all the guys get real thirsty as soon as they know there is a girl there so I highly doubt it's down to that. Imo it's down to 2 things...... Either you're a drama queen/attention seeker or you're not great at the game. Whilst the second reason can be fixed the first cannot and being booted for attention seeking is fully justified imo
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Edited by Kemaleon: 4/29/2016 3:27:45 PMIts the ignorant morons who live by stereotypes, they need to open their minds and not just judge people because of their gender. I mean, just because women can't drive doesn't mean they'll suck at video games too right? [spoiler]Joke[/spoiler]
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3 RepliesI'm going to laugh and say people didn't know how to talk to you so people kicked you instead. ~[i]TheGreatNike[/i]
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6 RepliesStop doing the raid, hun. Come here and let me carry you in ToO . By far the easiest way to get high level gear.
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Sell it and put the $2 you'll get toward DS3.
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I see now, you have Zero Kings fall completions, and 8 total raid completions.... you are a inexperienced noob when it comes to raids. I'm sure it shows so people kick you. Plain and simple.
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8 RepliesI know the reason, it's an ancient disease called cooties and some kinderguardians think they can catch it through the microphone
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Yeah, some Destiny gamers have no respect
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I have Never been kicked.... Ever in the almost 2 years of playing.... you either suck, or you really suck at finding groups....
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Who do you main?
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What?! Makes no sense. Your unlucky and in the minority.
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People are wonderful aren't they? /sarcasm It may be that they mistake you for a child. I reccomend trying to raid with friends more than randoms, or raiding as the fireteam leader.
