Or, in the case of my bisexual and homosexual friends, guys? I just don't understand this. Why be afraid? If they don't return the affection, so what? Get that disappointment done and over with. Why torture yourself by keeping it pent up and secret? Just tell her. Just do it, man. What's the problem? She has a boyfriend? Well, shit, maybe she wouldn't if you had approached her before he did. Tell her anyway, just don't try to get with somebody else's girl. Seriously, what's the deal? Talk to me Flood.