Felicia, let me first say I like what you're trying to do. as DeeJ implies, we should conduct ourselves as gentlemen. As for my input on this matter: first, its probably never a good idea for anyone to put their picture online. With facebook and twitter this has changed somewhat, but before social media almost nobody would have put themselves in a forum. As for the dicks on the bnet, they are concentrated in #Flood. just stay away from #Flood and you're all good.