Right now, I have no problems with talking to new people, talking with girls, dancing and having fun at parties, doing speeches in front of the class. I really feel like a new person for the better and made a 180 degree change in my life with past few weeks. Sure I am not perfect, but I am improved a lot by being forced with social engagement and being put out of my comfort zone. If I can give advice, I would say be put out of your comfort zone and hang out with people who will help you to do so. Hell I been taking the main row of skits in front of whole sororties and made them laugh their ass off.