If they act how they dress I usually have a higher intrest. If they dress scantily and act wantonly it gets me going. If the dress modestly and act elegantly it gets me going as well. If it's scant/elegant then no and if it's modest/wanton then no. It's one thing to look OR act the part but it's a totally different ballpark to look AND act the part. I to have been left too many times, I didn't give into my as[b][/b]shole side but I certainly became more selfish and gave less fu[b][/b]cks. It used to be bending over backwards to the nth degree but now it's more "here's what you wanted now I'm going to get what I wanted and if we still have money we might get something else"