I personally just think the concept of either situation is ridiculous. Not because people should stick to what they are, but because society actually set up such barriers to begin with. If in the beginning people were allowed to act however they wanted and be attracted to anybody without risk of being criticised or worse, then the entire concept of "sex vs gender" would not exist. Not would racial barriers. But instead the human race decided to hate everyone who isn't what they consider to be normal, and now after thousands of years these people are fit to mg back and trying not only break down the social barriers, but build of their own of which to stand on top of and criticize anybody who so much as uses the wrong terminology for a man dressed as a woman. It's just ridiculous is what it is.