Only girl I've ever loved/love is my ex-girlfriend. She's my absolute 10/10 and I don't know what it is, but I knew it from the moment we met. We've been broken up for 5 months but still see and sleep with each other on-and-off. I date other girls and sleep with other girls and I'm sure she does the same with guys, but it always comes back to her. Had a 1st date tonight with a girl I met at Uni and we had a wonderful time, made out at the end, made plans to go out again, but afterwards I got home, my ex called me, an hour later she'd driven to my house and now she's asleep in my bed.
I both love her and hate her. I don't even understand it myself.
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ay man long as u gettin ur dick wet nahmsayin?
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Cut it off, mate. Your relationship with your ex is cancerous. Move on and find someone better.
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And when I say "cut it off", I mean completely. Delete her number, don't answer when she calls. Don't be her friend, her lover or her associate. Don't be her anything. If you don't heed this advice, it is just going to go on life support and progressively get worse. You will meet great girls, but, she will always be there to cannonball your romances with other women. Cut yourself off from her. It isn't healthy.
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I know, man. Got a lot of problems and she's just part of it. Seeing a therapist starting Monday. But yeah, need to get my ex out of my life. I've tried a few times but she ends up calling when I've had one of my bad days, or I see/do something that reminds me of her, or I get drunk or have a bad drug comedown and get anxiety over not having her. I get too codependent in relationships. I know the psychological reasons why I do and I can rationalise it, but it doesn't matter how logically I look at it sometimes.
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That's good, man. You'll get it sorted eventually.