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Edited by sexy man:
8/12/2014 1:04:40 PM
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What should I do?
Okay, so there is this girl I used to be good friends with, then I dated her for a few months. A few months ago, however, she kinda went off with another dude. She didn't cheat per se, but she broke up with me to go with the other dude. Anyway, I haven't talked much to her since then, but recently she broke up with the other guy and now she keeps messaging me, and she sent me some "gifts". I don't know what she is trying to achieve. Maybe she wants to be friends again, maybe she wants to go out again. I am single right now, so to say, though I've been going out with several girls.
I don't know what to do. I told myself I don't want anything to do with her anymore, but it seems like she is really trying to be nice. Any advice, Flood?
P.S. Anyone else having troubles with apostrophes on B.net recently? In fact, seems like the site update a month or so ago broke a lot of stuff.
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Ok so, here's on thing. Never ask Destiny forums for anything regarding romance.
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Fuc[u]k[/u] that, if you leave you're gone forever.
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If you think you can be friends then don't be an ass but under no circumstances are you to date her again because she's shallow
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If you're cool with being her 2nd 3rd or 4th choice have at it [spoiler]you shouldn't be ok with it[/spoiler]
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She left you so her loss. You don't need to be her second choice! Go out and get somebody that you deserve!
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Fu[i]c[/i]k her, make her think you really like her, then leave her for another hoe.
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She left once, she'll do it again. You want girls that need you, not want you.
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>high school drama Talk to her. After a couple years you'll never see each other again, most likely. There's no point in being a douche.
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4 RepliesYes it always means girls are nice when they send naked pics.
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[quote]She bailed on you for a better offer. Flick her. Can't trust her.[/quote]
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Don't be a rebound from the other dude. She doesn't deserve you again.
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Kill her. [spoiler]There is a good chance that you are just the fallback guy; if that is in fact the case, you don't want to be that guy, even if it's to be nice. [/spoiler]
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Maybe try being friends with her and see where that leads. either she is being a terrible person and just wants to be back with you just to be in a relationship and would leave you again as quickly as last time, or she genuinely would prefer to be with you again. Good luck.
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She dumped you when something better came along. However, you don't know her true motivations as to why she's talking to you again. Since you're probably not going to outright ask her, I'd suggest giving her a second chance. But tell her how you feel about what she did. Don't hold your feelings back. If she really cares about you then she'll listen and try to win you back. Worst case scenario: she says no. Best case scenario: you get your (girl)friend back. Seems like an easy decision to me: Give her another chance. And seriously guys? Way too many of you Floods voted for OP to aim low by just being friends. Go big or go home, dude. It's worth the risk regardless of how it turns out.
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2 RepliesShe bailed on you for a better offer. Flick her. Can't trust her.
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Edited by Cloaked Goliath: 8/12/2014 12:59:12 PMThat's bad news written all over it. She missed out on a great guy, don't let her crawl back. You deserve much better than her. friendship Is fine, but if It was me that's as far as it would go. Edit: (in response to your edit) apostrophes aren't giving me hell, but the notifications and thread comments being cut should be fixed soon.
