>look her dead in the eyes >wink >her face drenched with tears, lips quivering >everyone around stops in their tracks, looking at this sight of violent male oppression >hold the door while smiling politely >she wearily steps through, clearly shaken by this patriarchal demonstration of misoginy >"T-thank you", she whispers >already walking away, I look over my shoulder >"it was... my privilege" Your privilege boys. Learn to check it.