Feet are gross. Bondage and submission is kind of offensive to me, too.
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-blam!-ing baby
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[quote]Feet are gross. Bondage and submission is kind of offensive to me, too.[/quote]lolwut
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Curious Why is it offensive to you?
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It just comes off as abusive or cruel, really kills my boner. I mean I get everyone is a willing participant, but it just feels [i]wrong[/i] to me.
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[quote]It just comes off as abusive or cruel, really kills my boner. I mean I get everyone is a willing participant, but it just feels [i]wrong[/i] to me.[/quote] Sounds like you like that sweet, sweet vanilla.
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I understand. But perhaps I could babble a bit to help shed some light? It may or may not do anything In bondage and submission, it's not so much about owning or being owned. Abusing or being abused. It's a great amount of trust. A sort of sexual dance of interests, body language and arousal. From the outside it's often seen as mindless or self degrading. However it couldn't be more opposite. A matter of understanding the partner(s) in order to know what flips their trigger and what's a no go zone. As with any fetish or sexual act. [spoiler]Forgive me. My brain is absolutely fried. Working two peoples shifts at the same time alone atm[/spoiler]
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[quote]it's not so much about owning or being owned.[/quote] Speak for yourself
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Well Everyone is different. In the moment it can be about that But you don't truly see the person as nothing more than disposable property Or most don't.
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Yeah, I didn't mean long-term. I thought we were talking about in the moment.
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You stole my question.
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-blam!- you