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5/22/2025 5:19:41 PM
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Maybe the real reward for downloading the app was the friends we made along the way.
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For darkness was the heart's true essence.
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Every light must fade! Every heart return to DARKNESS!
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[quote]Maybe the real reward for downloading the app was the friends we made along the way.[/quote] 👏 Bravo!!
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This meme is funny in almost any situation, but this particular context was just too perfect!
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Boy, that escalated quickly... I mean, that really got out of hand fast.
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Indeed. He likes to bring this up at random for some reason. This isn't the first time. The person he's talking about left the forum years ago, and the drama between them happened years before that. I don't know why he brings it up so much.
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I just found it a bizarre reaction to your joke, don't want to be mean but it's like he rolled a nat 0 on a speech check lol [spoiler]p.s I really want to do a "controlled spoiler" review for Soma cause that actually sounded like a fun thing to do but I'm finding it really difficult as I don't want to spoil a single thing, so maybe; eventually. [/spoiler]
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That's because it is a bizarre reaction. I could probably dive into some psychology and try to figure it out, but eh. Either way, it was a bit much. It was a jump from, like, a -2 all the way to an 11. [spoiler]Haha, I feel that! Figuring out how to properly dish out controlled spoilers is really hard. I think I've pulled it off a few times, but most of the times I find I err too far on the side of not enough info. It's a really tough balance to strike. They are fun essays to write, though, and if you do put something up, I'll most likely give it a read.[/spoiler]
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Friends? On here? All I’ve received is cruel messages, gaslighting and insults.
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Probably because you throw a fit and make a big show of it every time someone looks at you funny. Like right now, for instance.
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I’m actually talking about the time someone gaslit me into believing I told her to KILL herself. Also I love how you IMMEDIATELY proved my point by insulting me. Well done.
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[quote]I’m actually talking about the time someone gaslit me into believing I told her to KILL herself.[/quote] Hmm… I wonder who that could have been. 🙃
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Edited by The First Aifos: 5/22/2025 9:40:26 PMI know exactly what you’re talking about, and I still believe her before I believe you. And you also proved my point, by hopping onto a random joke not even addressed in your general direction, and used it as an excuse to whine about an entirely unrelated event for literally no reason.
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DMd you cause I’m not getting banned.
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My DM system is broken. But all I'll say is that the person you're talking about takes those issues very seriously, and wouldn't accuse someone at random. I'm open to accept the idea that there was a misunderstanding, and leave it at that, but for some reason you like to bring it up over, and over, and over again. She's not even on these forums anymore, and has zero intention of ever coming back. Let. It. Go. Stop trying to drag people into a dead conflict to take your side against an opponent who you're never even going to see again. And no, this is not the reason I'm so hostile towards you. There are very few people I hold grudges against, and you're not one of them. If there's some sort of perceived default hostile nature from me, then it's not intentional. But, I respond to people based on how they act, and when you do things like this consistently, then I'm going to respond to you like this consistently.
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Then you need to accept there was a misunderstanding. Because I’m not the kind of person to do that stuff. I literally even DMd her telling her I’m sorry it happened, but that it certainly wasn’t me. And by her own words, she even stated that someone ELSE told her it was me that told her to do that. Some other person -blam!- didn’t like me for whatever reason. So if you say she wasn’t the kind of person to just accuse for no reason, fine, I can’t agree or disagree cause I don’t know her, but I didn’t say that, I’ve NEVER said that to ANYONE, and it caused so many mental health issues for me to the point where I was genuinely considering doing it myself. She may have had a misunderstanding, but she’s guilty in the sense that she perpetuated the lie, causing my own mental health to fail.
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I already said I'm open to accept it's a misunderstanding. That's why [i]I[/i] never bring it up. It was [u]YEARS[/u] ago. If you would stop bringing it up, then nobody would be talking about it. But if you're going to shove it in my face and force me to pick a side, I'm choosing hers. I'm sorry it was such a hard experience for you, but this isn't the place to share it. I've had equally bad experiences, and you don't see me jumping on all your superhero posts to tell you about them there, do you? If you really can't let it go, then you need to talk to a therapist about it, not randos on the internet.
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Didn’t realize me talking about the trauma this place has caused bothered you so much… And clearly you aren’t open to it being a misunderstanding since you JUST said because I keep talking about it you’re gonna keep taking her side. Which makes no sense. I’m done here.
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[quote]I’m done here.[/quote] promise?
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Huh, wonder why you receive such messages. /s
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Being open to it being a misunderstanding is not taking a side. But that's not what you want. You want me to mark my friend as a villain because of a mistake. That's not gonna happen. No matter the consequences, a mistake is still a mistake, and it was a bad experience for her, too. That's why things got so heated. Don't bring it up, I won't hold it against you. I'm fine with accepting it was a misunderstanding and being neutral. But if I'm not allowed to be neutral like you oh so do not want me to be, then I'm not siding with you. If someone asks to hear about your trauma, then by all means, tell them what happened, but if someone's not asking, then news flash, they're not asking. Let me remind you, this thread is in response to a joke. Not even a mean spirited or offensive joke. The only thing should've come out of this response was a light chuckle at best, or an eye roll at worst. And if she was still here, and was constantly hounding you or something, sure, maybe it's worth bringing it up--granted, in that case you should still be bringing it up with a forum moderator, not some rando--but once again [b][u]she is not even on the forums[/b][/u]. This isn't an ongoing issue. And if being on these forums really causes you that much distress just from being here even when the person who was causing the distress is gone, then why are you even here?
