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Edited by LegoMuncher(Crumchy):
2/7/2020 7:10:42 PM
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Okay to be fair, I was also in this state for quite a while. Man, it sucked watching her like other guys and just being her friend. Stick with it, seriously stick with it. If you truely love her she’ll see it, and she will see the guy you are and love you back. Just always be there for her. Make sure she knows that you are there for her. The wait is worth it, just had it happen to me. I wish you the best of luck from a former friend zoned gamer
Edit:I guess I’m not completely out of it because we aren’t dating, but we want to date. She just isn’t old enough by her parents standard to date
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She told me that other guys have tried hitting her up to go out but she turns them down all the time. She'd send me selfies and I screenshot them and keep them on my phone. On Snapchat she has the red heart next to her name (which means she only sends snaps to me and vice versa)and we currently have a 62 day streak going. Streaks on there for me usually only last about a day or two. I've taken her lunch to her job a bunch and one time I even left a note in her bag which she loved. We'd hang out whenever we have the time because our schedules are difficult and are different from each other. Lately she's been stressing out about her life and telling me depressing things but I've been there for her and giving her advice which has helped her. The only thing I can take from this is that she told me that she's not ready to date again yet because she is still trying to get over her ex. I told her I understood and that I wouldn't want to rush her into things. I guess now I have to wait like you said.
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It sounds like you may have a chance, but dont be her friend just because you want to date her, be her friend because you actually like her as a person. And know that being her friend does not entitle you to eventually date her. It sounds like she is just going through stuff and isnt ready for a relationship. Be there for her as a friend because if she's going through something, support will help her a lot. I've been in the same vein, but I was the one with a fear of relationships. I just didn't want the world to hurt me with something out of my control so I isolated myself and probably missed out on a few relationships in the past because of it, eventually someone made me realize I dont want to be alone and I've been with them for about half a year now.
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Kinda same scenario as me. The girl I talk to I’ve been trying to date for 6 months now. She liked her ex though, I had started to lose hope but I kept going just because I might have a chance. January rolls around and she is getting more and more annoyed at her ex, he does something dumb and she starts liking him less. Around the end of January, she said she was over her ex and liked me. It’s a process, it’s life. Just remember through it all, if it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be. If she does like you back one day, take that chance, but make sure you know what it could risk you emotionally. This is also coming from a sensitive ass teenager so not everything will work
