Sure one person gets the heavy, but there are tons of chances. Multiple spawn points that refresh a couple of times per match. Spawning has been fine for me. Only twice have I been spawned near "the action" and once was near where I died. But your mileage may vary I guess. If you hate getting team-shot, stick with a buddy. You don't need a mic, just follow him around and back him up. If your team repeatedly ignores the zones, then maybe hit LFG to find a team that knows what they're doing.