I think about people I used to know. I've had friends who have moved away, "friends" I had in high school, people I met in college, friends from work. So many of them had an enormous impact on me and I rarely talk to any of them anymore maybe once or twice a year.
I'm not exactly sure how this is supposed to work or how often I should be reaching out to them. I rarely text, I'm almost never on social media. I guess it doesn't help that I'm socially oblivious and never have much to say anyways. I really only talk to people I am forced to interact with or my very good and long time friends.
Is that normal?
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I don't know how "normal" it is, but I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing. Some people are outgoing, social, and enjoy the company of many people. Others are more selective about who they befriend, or simply prefer spending time on their own. Either way can be a perfectly healthy way to live, it's just a matter of balancing the various aspects of your life in a way that no particular portion consumes the others.