You have been friend zoned bud. Sorry to break it to you, I went through that a "few" times in college. Matter of fact, I had a girl say almost the exact same thing to me "I'll think about it". She doesn't want to put you down too hard so she's trying to be nice. Best advice I can give is just move on, you haven't known her that long anyway. Women are not like men in the sense that you get put into a specific category very quickly. Friend or potential lover. Once you are a friend it's nearly impossible to become a lover. That's why from the beginning it's important to make your interests known. Don't try and hide it until you are "sure". Hiding it is unattractive and it causes women to see you as creepy. Women love it when guys are interested in them. And even if you get turned down they will respect the hell out of you for being direct about it.
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Something that I didn't mention is that I was ensuring that she knew that I was interested in her throughout my time of being with her, or at least I was giving the thought of it without directly saying it. To be honest it would depend on the type of girl for it they find it creepy or not, some girls like the game
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What things were you doing to convey your interest? Because the response you said she gave sounded like she was taken off guard when you finally came out with it.
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Edited by CrealEater: 4/27/2016 4:31:45 PMI was giving implications of how great she was and also how we were well together, I always made sure I used the word "together" to keep the thought in mind. She may have at some point figure out my liking-ness because in the conversation she didn't take long to figure out that I was asking her out (implying that she may have thought about it before)