Hi there, I was having a problem very similar to yours where I would get booted from matches with error code #baboon and then I couldn't even log in with error code #marionberry. Resetting the router probably isn't the way to go in this case, the way that I eventually managed to get back online was by putting my Playstation into DMZ mode. For some reason the first time I tried this it didn't work, but when I had my ISP do it remotely over livechat it worked like a charm. I also had them forward the ports on the router and enable UPnP functions, all of this helps to allow Destiny's servers to function the best they can on your system. I hope this helps! I know how frustrating your situation is