We've all been there. It's getting late. You're looking at the clock waiting for her to get sleepy so you can break away. You know your fireteam is waiting for you, in the trenches, taking on hoards and hoards and screaming, "Where the hell is Poet?!?!" I've gotten to the point it's just pathetic. I go through the motions of going to bed (shower, turn lights off, bang it out) then I just lay there waiting for her to go to dream land so I can sneak through my own house like a burglar (don't turn any lights on or make loud noises and using my flashlight on my cellphone). I hit the power button to my PS3 (which sounds like a clock tower going off in a small quite apartment). I stand silently listening for any stirring. Then, finally, I get on, catch up with my friends, "hey guys, want to do the daily, the bounties, the nightfall????" and every time, "Sorry man, we've already done it."
SOOOOOO, let's hear it. What are your own escape plans to ditching the girlfriend and logging on???
EDIT: man, it sounds like a lot of you are in a relationship with someone who totally understands and appreciates your passions and you don't have to nightstalker across your house to play. That's awesome. Also, that means this thread isn't for you. I'm not looking for relationship advice. My girlfriend is not a gamer (hats off to the ladies that commented on my thread...you are one in a million). We're both athletes. We both love the same TV shows, but the video games are just not something she relates to. Sooooooo .... I would like to hear from the guys and gals that are in MY boat and require a little strategic planning to play.
EDIT: I appreciate all your posts guys and gals. While the thread was created in lighthearted fun and intended for those that wanted to laugh about how they steal away a few extra hours of play, it has really brought up some points of interest. I see some of you really struggle with this on the daily. Continue to vent, explain, advise. Thanks again.
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6 RepliesEdited by squishlings: 10/29/2015 5:49:44 PMI'm single and in my thirties so I play when I want just won't be banging anything out. It really isn't necessary anyhow sort of like going through life without eating sweets is how it is. Can't be bothered to live a double life of caring boyfriend/husband and also a Destiny addict. I made my decision and feel it's right for this guardian.
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1 ReplyGive her the D she'll be staggered for hours
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Ask her if she fancies a bit of light s&m. Tie her up. Wham all nighter on destiny.
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Explain to her that this is something that you enjoy doing, and you need time to enjoy it. My newly wed wife and I had this discussion a few weeks ago. It will require some compromise, but shifting priorities is part of the IRL game. I still find time to enjoy Destiny, just not hours at a time every single day. But that's to be expected, and I'm cool with it. If you and your GF are committed to each other, she will understand if you explain it to her clearly. She might even be willing to give gaming a try. My wife is slowly asking me to play some casual games with her. So if im in the middle of something on Destiny, ill stop and switch to something cooperative and we play. Including her, has allowed me to continue my passion for gaming. Maybe one day she will be playing Destiny right along my side. Good luck to you Guardian!
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Edited by Ricky24O7: 10/30/2015 9:57:58 AMGet a second tv so it doesn't take away from her tv time. You'd be surprised.....don't sneak not healthy
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2 RepliesI think the real question here is... You have a PS3?!?? Whoooaaaa
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Does this smell like chloroform [spoiler]Jk. I've never done that[/spoiler] [spoiler]always copping it from her for loving my ps4 more than her[/spoiler]
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2 RepliesYou all have trouble with grils? I haz no grilfriend so I'm Gucci lmao
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My girl is a gamer too. She mainly plays ff15, so we coordinate our raid nights. Works out perfectly. I leave her alone, she leaves me alone and we get our raids done without issues
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2 RepliesJust play if she doesnt like it she can -blam!- herself
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Either give her my credit card and tell her to have fun. Or just not log on and spend time with her lol
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2 RepliesUmm that's weird. You should just do it while she's at work or otherwise not using the TV. If she yells at you for trying to play videogames, time for new gf Btw im a lady and i play equally as much as my bf
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Find another one
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Are you dating your mother?
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4 RepliesGet a gamer girl. She'll understand
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2 RepliesYou just play, unless you have a nagging immature girlfriend
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Yeah my misses hates me playing games end of, so i go to work early so i can leave early (fortunate in my job to do that) to play a few hours before shes home. And as since we don't live together i "fake" being tired so she goes home or i go home, then boom destiny!
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1 ReplyGet a new GF. My girl lets me play whenever.
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1 ReplyI just play, its my hobby, if she nags, she will get a boot up her ass. Every1 needs a hobby, this is mine.
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I work every other day so on my work days we made those my destiny days if I decide to get on , other than that time off game is taking care of of the wife and helping out around the house I mean if she can't argue then she has no reason to be mad and say no to destiny ...right ?
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I hand my wife her controller and tell her to come do whatever activity I need to do with me.
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1 ReplyEdited by legendarydrunk: 10/30/2015 9:34:41 AMBitch I'm playing games "slap".....I then wake up from my daydream and politely ask "do you mind if I play for a bit".....response " all you ever do is play that stupid game" door slams xbone on. Lol
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If she's that anal retentive and you go that far just to relax/blow off steam. She isn't the right girl. Find a new one. Plenty out there.
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1 ReplyThink for a moment about what you are doing. Sneaking around, no matter for what, can slowly add distrust in the relationship. Don't fake things. Just tell your GF you are going to play and if she doesn't understand that you want to... well, maybe you are not meant for each other.
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She gets me a beer, puts on her kindle fire, and watches me during downtimes. I'm a lucky, lucky man.
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Why not have the best of both? Make sure you have a desk setup with ample head room for your gf