Hey there! :> First off, let me say that I'm really sorry you've had to put up with being misgendered over the mic. I originally joined a female-only clan in order to avoid the stereotypical cis guy attitudes, and it's done me a whole lot of good. I identify as genderqueer (assigned female at birth) and I am most certainly trans-friendly, so I'd love to play with you sometime! I primarily play as a 31 Titan (my hunter is 27 and warlock is 24, so I don't use them much), and I'm on almost every day. I don't know about a clan specifically for trans and non-binary, unfortunately. I know my clan includes transwomen, but I'm afraid a transmasculine boy would likely be misgendered by most of the women in the clan, so I won't suggest you join. It's such a shame, they're all so sweet, but I can't say for sure how progressive they are or trans-friendly.