I don't think there's that much to discuss honestly. I was trying to find places to agree with you. Want to learn the raid but cant find anyone willing to teach? Watch some Youtube videos. Take it one phase at a time. Don't have time to do the whole raid? Join in at a checkpoint man. Join at Atheon for the vex. Join at templar for fatebringer. Join at Crota when you're a high enough level. There's solutions to your problems. Work to find em man