I personally just don't see the problem with every lonely 20 year old in America. Even at my MUCH younger age I can tell that most guys are annoying attention seeking pricks who act like this because they have no experience with the outside world. (Not that you are, I realized very quick this was a general post to a woman's' frustration with the opposite gender) However, I will not admit that some times guys just aren't sure what to say, since we practically know nothing about women, and many act very differently.