Dear confused OP, This may come as a surprise to someone of your grandeur, but I'll do my best to explain it in a way a five year old could grasp. Video games, with Destiny not being any exception, are meant to be played for entertainment. Entertainment is this big word we adults use to explain what FUN is (ya know F is for friends who do stuff together?). If you have never experienced the raw adrenaline it is to save an entire raid crew in the last few seconds of hope, then you have no room to talk (and I feel bad for you, because it is so badass). Not everyone has the same skill level or the time or the patience to tackle the muscle memory mechanics of each and every aspect of the content in this game. Wanna know what else OP? Connection error? Don't worry, lock's got your back. Unexpected lag spikes? Pfff guess what I've been saving my GD super for... Someone's kid needs an emergency diaper change? Just tell me when... Why? Because my super is worth the manpower of 2 players instead of one. What OP needs to consider is that playing as a warlock with self res is actually one of the more selfless things one could do in PvE. Seems to me like the trigger pulls of your weapon can't satisfy protecting your team enough... otherwise you wouldn't be complaining about wipes...