If you spent 3 months upgrading guns you're doing it wrong. You can max a gun in a few hours of exp grinding. It's really not that serious.

You were working while upgrading your weapons? You're lucky, I don't get to play video games at work.

Wow. There's a better answer. Trade it in then. Get you another game to sink hours into

I'm pretty sure the volume of people who disagree with your take it or leave it attitudes, is way more powerful then you give us credit. And I'm sorry none of you have a enough real life outside of destiny to believe that this is not a big deal. It is. 3 months of work only to be behind again. And yes I did say work. I don't know what you call walking aimlessly in circles hours for materials, but if it's not work. You my friend are a nerd.