If she is that great she won't leave her current guy, and remember this. If she does leave current guy for you, she will at some point leave you for another. I know, I backdoored a guy to get his woman, married her, and she screwed me by cheating on me with some other guy who backdoored me.
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Well look at it this way, you 'care' about her and say she is good people. Yet you want to slip in under the radar and push her current boyfriend out of the relationship because you 'want' her. If she wanted you, you and her would be in that kind of relationship, sounds to me like she is happy having you as a friend and not as a lover. But you aren't happy with that, because you are quite content to possibly destroy your current mutual relationship with her because you want what someone else has. If you were a true friend and if you were good people, you wouldn't even contemplate this action, as you would be satisfied that she is happy even if you are not. Therefore your friendship is based on a lie. Would you be able to live with yourself knowing that you destroyed her relationship with the person she chose just so you could have what you want? Most likely you would. What would happen if she found out the truth, how would you explain that? Possibly you don't care, because neither has happened. But a true friend would dream and never take action.