I don't see the problem. They explained what they were trying to do, and if you weren't on board, you should have just left the game and joined a different fireteam. Because you decided to be stubborn about that and "sit and do nothing", they trolled you. I don't see anything wrong with that.
Its simple really, if a player isn't playing the game the way you want to, leave and find a new game. Its a hell of a lot easier to do that, than to try to change the player.
They obviously weren't going to change their minds. Instead of sitting there and doing nothing, you could have spent that time waiting for a new strike.