Couldn't care less it you are male or female and to be honest anyone over 25 doesn't care either.
I have alot of female friends on xbox1 and its never been an issue. Alot of girls I know do have "male" names for gts to get less crap from little boys though.
Its only an issue if you make it 1 and it doesn't take rocket science to be able to press that mute button.
There are also alot of girls acting far worse than alot of the mouthy boys si remember it goes both ways.