If there was nothing wrong with being gay then why do people get so upset when you use it as an insult? Words are only demeaning if you make them demeaning, otherwise it just makes you sound stupid. "That's so straight" doesn't sound offensive, so why is "that's so gay" offensive? If being gay isn't a bad thing, why would people get upset at you when you say it in a derogatory sense and not just blow it off like if you said "that's so straight"? Checkmate heterophobes Edit: LOL the butthurt is REAL!